Shameless Sex

Ready to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship — without feeling like you're stuck in a rut? On this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into 4 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy—straight from our recent couples retreat where attendees said we “changed their lives” (and even saved marriages!).  Ever wonder how to stay endlessly curious about your partner? Or how to master those tricky conversations that keep your connection thriving? We’ve got you covered with playful, practical advice that will make your relationship feel fresh, exciting, and deeply connected every day. What you’ll learn in this episode:   * The secret to staying endlessly curious — inspired by Esther Perel’s wisdom   * How to give and ask for permission to navigate tricky conversations with ease   * Creative ways to spice things up, including fun photoshoots and the magic of always using lube (yes, really!)   * Why communication is the ultimate umbrella for all relationship growth—plus the best resources to level up your skills   * A powerful 10-minute clip from our latest retreat where couples share how they found new hope and connection by joining the shameless sex revolution (and retreating themselves) Who’s this for? If you’re ready to reignite your long-term love, deepen your intimacy, and have some fun along the way, this episode is your new best friend. Plus, get insider access to exclusive tips, upcoming retreats, and 60 ideas to keep your sex and relationship vibrant when you sign up for our newsletter at shamelesssex.com [http://shamelesssex.com],  Teaser: Plus, we’re sharing a surprising tip that could transform your relationship overnight — you won’t want to miss it! Tune in now and start making your love story even spicier. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b [https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef] Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠ [https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm/] Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.purepleasureshop.com/p/511417/1362222/shameless-sex] now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/book] to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/ZMM6NZHZZMCJ?ref_=wl_share] Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠⁠⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.masterclass.com/?utm_medium=POD&utm_term=Aq-Prospecting&utm_content=SHAMELESS&utm_campaign=pp_%7c_brd_%7c_uns&utm_source=POD&promo_id=shameless] Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at ⁠http://loadboost.com⁠ [loadboost.com] Get 20% off our favorite soft-core kink products with code SHAMELESS at ⁠https://www.sportsheets.com⁠ [https://www.sportsheets.com/] Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠ [http://uberlube.com/] Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/f837ecf8-cc7a-11ec-8915-87d21d3cd4c0/podcasts/2467df16-dad3-11ec-8495-df7c8933fc22/episodes/53b7791c-648e-11ed-b05a-6bd0abb30ad3/www.OMGyes.com/shameless]⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠ [http://omgyes.com/shameless] Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠ [http://purepleasureshop.com/]

Dustin Rybka, host of the Sex Party podcast, joins us to share his story of moving from being a club promoter in the nightlife scene into the world of sex podcasting.  It’s a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud conversation about his  adventures, the crazy stories that kept him up all night, and how he went from innocent to insatiable—sometimes all in the same weekend. In this episode, you'll discover:   * How Dustin’s journey from the nightlight industry led him to podcasting about sex and dating  * Stories about  asked to have sex with someone’s girlfriend or wife at the club * The biggest lessons learned from 3 years and 170+ episodes of the Sex Party podcast   * Dustin’s future plans—-think OnlyFans, relationship adventures, and building his “Sex Party Empire” To join the fun and listen to his podcast, Sex Party with Dustin Rybka, visit sexparty.fm [http://sexparty.fm] Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour] Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm/] Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.purepleasureshop.com/p/511417/1362222/shameless-sex] now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/book] to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/ZMM6NZHZZMCJ?ref_=wl_share] Other links: Get 20% off our favorite soft core kink products with code SHAMELESS at http://sportsheets.com [https://www.sportsheets.com/] Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://uberlube.com/] Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/f837ecf8-cc7a-11ec-8915-87d21d3cd4c0/podcasts/2467df16-dad3-11ec-8495-df7c8933fc22/episodes/53b7791c-648e-11ed-b05a-6bd0abb30ad3/www.OMGyes.com/shameless]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://omgyes.com/shameless] Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://purepleasureshop.com/]

In this mini episode we share a clip from episode ⁠#415 ⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/podcast/415-love-like-this-real-talk-about-sex-and-love-in-longterm-relationships?rq=415]featuring dream couple Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate and educator. This dynamic duo is passionate about helping couples (re)connect, dive into deeper intimacy, and turn up the heat in the bedroom. Join them (we highly recommend it!) for their upcoming Good LOVE Couple’s Retreat⁠ [https://www.wetravel.com/trips/good-love-couples-retreat-costa-rica-the-good-vibe-retreat-27807057] in beautiful Costa Rica June 14-19, 2025. To sign up or learn more go to ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx [https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx]

In this electric Shameless Sex episode, BDSM mastermind Orpheus Black returns to decode the art of the Switch—the deliciously fluid player who can dominate, submit, and glide between the two with swagger and grace. Whether you suspect a Switch lives inside you or you’re already toggling roles but want more skill (and less whiplash), this conversation hands you the roadmap. What you’ll learn before the flogger even warms up:   • Switch 101: how Orpheus defines Dominance, submission, and the magic zone where they meet.   • The “Am I a Switch?” checklist—desires, tells, and green-flag feelings to watch for.   • Rookie rules: scene negotiation, consent choreography, and aftercare when both partners’ needs flip.   • Level-up tactics: pacing power exchanges, reading energy shifts, and avoiding the dreaded role-confusion hangover.   • Lifestyle vs. play-only switching—how to keep everyday power dynamics healthy (and brunch-friendly).   • The Ultimate Switch toolkit: mindset exercises, communication hacks, and ego elasticity drills straight from Orpheus’s playbook.   • Where to dive deeper with workshops, coaching, and community at orpheusblack.com. Why your ears—and every other hotspot—will celebrate:   • Turn role-hopping chaos into confident, consensual choreography.   • Upgrade your communication skills faster than you can say “Yellow for a check-in.”   • Amplify intimacy by understanding both sides of the whip—empathy is the new aphrodisiac.   • Walk away with practical tools you can use tonight, not “someday.” Think you can’t have it all? Press play and let Orpheus show you how to claim the crown, kneel before it, and relish every switch in between. Dare to double your power? Tune in now. To learn more go to https://orpheusblack.com [https://orpheusblack.com] Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour] Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm/] Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.purepleasureshop.com/p/511417/1362222/shameless-sex] now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.shamelesssex.com/book] to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/ZMM6NZHZZMCJ?ref_=wl_share] Other links: Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠http://butterwellness.com⁠ [http://butterwellness.com/] Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://uberlube.com/] Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/f837ecf8-cc7a-11ec-8915-87d21d3cd4c0/podcasts/2467df16-dad3-11ec-8495-df7c8933fc22/episodes/53b7791c-648e-11ed-b05a-6bd0abb30ad3/www.OMGyes.com/shameless]⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://omgyes.com/shameless] Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://purepleasureshop.com/]

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Known as a master of storytelling, she has written for several magazines and networks and her own award-winning online travel magazine, We Blog the World [https://www.weblogtheworld.com/], which reaches over half a million globally.   Renee has launched award-winning campaigns for start-ups and Fortune 500 brands for nearly thirty years and has appeared as a spokesperson on major network broadcast stations and global business media. Renee has worked with celebrities, actors, Grammy Award musicians and renowned technology entrepreneurs in Silicon Valley, Europe, Australia and Asia.    Feeling that soul was missing from the industry, she launched Blue Soul Media [http://www.bluesoulmedia.com/], which serves as a bridge between Spirit and Business. Today, she helps women step into their authentic voices and embrace a life that aligns with their soul’s calling. 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