Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrother and stepson scene. Then the stories begin, including a couple of recent massage clients for Cole, as well as a very fun three-way collab. Adam shares about how his dalliances have been very dynamic and specific, including some particularly submissive boys, side play, and a surprise visit from someone he has been curious about for a long time. To finish up, the boys have a little discussion about the other things common about springtime, which are conflict and conflict resolution, and the lessons this brings up. Lots of fun in this episode, enjoy and sorry!!

We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film landscape, looking for a place to belong. Every journey into the gay adult content stratosphere is unique, and Daniel’s story is proof that sometimes going with your gut is the best way to personal liberation.

He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all over the internet. Derek remains steadfast in his convictions that no matter what kind of content he is creating, he knows himself and what he offers and that an attitude of gratitude is keeping him afloat and working more steadily than ever. He also shares some important facts about his work with the Free Speech Coalition, that led to him winning their Advocacy award, proving that making adult films isn’t just about hot content, it’s also about preserving our rights to free speech and, above all, privacy. You’re gonna love this one, y’all.

This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this call, he followed his more creative side by going to New York and flexing his musical skills and costume designing muscles, all while also understanding the privilege and lucrative potential of being just generally damn attractive. As creators, we grapple with these many callings, and sometimes we follow where the money is - this conversation with Logan touches on the many avenues we find to survive in the American capitalist landscape when you are creatively capable, but also gay and hot. Logan has found himself in this position because it suits him, and we go deep into why and how, and it’s oh so much fun.

Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his own as a self-actualized gay young adult who understood that shame and modesty no longer served him. He shares about some of his favorite scenes, his eventual foray into studio work, and the boys share a moment to grieve the late Roman Mercury, who passed away suddenly a few weeks ago. To close the episode, Emil reflects on what advice he’d give his younger self from his current perspective, which proves poignant and fitting to many others in the community, in or out of the adult industry. Don’t miss this one, folks, Emil is a true keeper.