The BigTalk Podcast

Episode 107 - The Shadows That Gather Around a Woman of Innate Depth & Power

Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time? One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.” Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life. In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure. You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth. Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious. If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth. - Early Bird savings are ending soon. - Just 2 spots left! Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification

Episode 106 - Where Lived Experience Becomes Professional Mastery

Many of the people who find their way into coaching have walked through something profound. They’ve faced trauma, loss, upheaval, or deep initiations that cracked them open. And instead of running from those experiences, they let them carve depth. That lived experience is gold. It gives you the capacity to hold space like few others can. But here’s the catch: lived wisdom on its own doesn’t always translate into professional mastery. 👉 How do you take what you’ve walked through and shape it into a framework that clients can safely trust? 👉 How do you stand out in an industry where anyone can call themselves a coach? 👉 How do you move from instinctual “helping” to a skillful practice backed by credibility and accreditation? In this episode, I’ll share: - Why lived experience is the raw material of depth coaching, but not the full container. - The hidden dangers of relying on life story alone when guiding others. - How to forge your wisdom into a professional skillset that integrates shadow, psyche, and transformation. - Why credibility and accreditation matter now more than ever in the coaching industry. - The pathway that turns depth-seekers into certified psychodynamic life coaches. If you’ve ever felt the call to take your lived story and turn it into something bigger - something that gives you both the depth and the legitimacy to lead others - this episode is for you. ✨ Next step: Enrollment is now open for the October 2025 cohort of the Psychodynamic Coach Academy. Save $1500 with our Early Bird tuition, or spread your investment over 10 monthly payments (interest-free). 📅 Book your free Consultation Call today to discover if the PCA is the right next step for you. Discover more here: 👉 https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification

Episode 105 - How to Cultivate Inner Ground in Times of Outer Chaos

We’re living in chaotic times - violence in the headlines, polarity on social media, nervous systems stretched to the limit. But the truth is, outer chaos often mirrors what we’ve avoided inside. In this episode, we explore: - Why collective shadow is showing up through splitting, polarity, and othering - How “chaos” can actually be an initiation point, not sabotage - Why surface-level fixes don’t work when the unconscious is in play - Practical ways to cultivate inner ground and hold the tension of opposites - How depth coaching prepares you to navigate (and guide others through) this moment in history If you’ve felt exhausted by conflict, or you’ve noticed old patterns resurfacing just when you’re ready to expand, this conversation will remind you: resistance is not failure. It’s an invitation to integrate, deepen, and reconnect to the Self. ✨ Enrollment for the October 2025 cohort of the Psychodynamic Coach Academy is now open. Early bird savings available for a short time. Only 12 spaces. Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification

Episode 104 - What Most Coaches Get Wrong About Visibility

You’ve done the mindset work. You’ve journaled your affirmations. You’ve hired the coach, written the post, hit publish… So why does visibility in your business still feel like a full-body shutdown? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many brilliant, intuitive, soul-led women still feel resistance around being seen - especially the super survivors, cycle breakers, and sensitives amongst us. (Spoiler: it’s not your content. It’s your shadow). In this episode we explore: ✨ The difference between “visibility mindset” and shadow visibility work ✨ Why your brilliance and boldness were likely buried in your early years ✨ The concept of your Shadow Edge - and how reclaiming it changes everything ✨ Why being visible hits harder for cycle breakers and super survivors This conversation is a reclamation for the parts of you that are still hiding behind polish and perfection. The parts that were taught to perform, shrink, or play nice. If you’ve ever felt like you’re ready to step into more impact - but still find yourself second-guessing, over-editing, or shapeshifting your voice… This episode is for you. * Note: there is some adult language in this episode so wear earphones if you have sensitive ears around* Thanks so much for stopping by and until next time... much love. Amanda x *** About Amanda - Psychologist & Business Strategist: Amanda Davies is a multi award-winning business leader, a Registered Psychologist with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) for over 20 years, and a Certified Somatic Practitioner. As a Fellow of the Association for Coaching (AC), Amanda has made significant contributions to the industry and pioneered the world's first Psychodynamic Coaching methodology, reflecting her passion for integrating accessible coaching methodologies with Psychodynamics to achieve profound and lasting transformation. She is committed to supporting current and future leaders in the personal development industry, helping them deepen their craft and create a ripple effect of positive change. In 2015, Amanda transitioned from a successful corporate career to pursue her passion for empowering others. With over 20 years of diverse experience, she passionately believes that, regardless of your circumstances or the obstacles you face, you can achieve your full potential in this lifetime. Amanda has been featured in The Times, The Guardian, Yahoo Finance, The Telegraph, and Huffington Post. She was shortlisted as a finalist in the UK's National Business Awards (2017) and named as the UK's leading Business Mentor (2019). Her dedication to blending coaching methodologies with Psychodynamic principles sets her apart as a transformative force in the field of personal development. Amanda's Links: Join the 'Electric Woman' Shadow Work Course (use Code ELECTRIC20 at checkout to save 20% throughout June): https://www.lightpurposelivingtraining.com/electricwoman Become a Certified Psychodynamic Coach - October 2025 Waitlist Open: www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certi…ation Facebook: www.facebook.com/lightpurposeliving/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/lightpurposeliving/ Website: www.lightpurposeliving.com/

Episode 103 - From Self-Doubt to Coaching Mastery: How to Become the Coach You’re Meant to Be

Welcome to Episode 103 of the #BigTalk podcast. In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles coaches face: self-doubt. Whether you're new to coaching or looking to level up your business, it’s natural to feel insecure or uncertain about your path. If you’ve ever felt like an imposter, feared judgment, or worried you’re not good enough to lead, you’re not alone. But here's the truth: good intentions, a willingness to help others, and positive thinking alone won’t lead to coaching mastery. In today’s episode, we dive deep into the root cause of self-doubt and how it holds many coaches back from stepping into their true potential. You’ll learn how self-doubt shows up in your coaching practice - whether it’s procrastination, fear of visibility, or feeling overwhelmed by the responsibility of leading others. We’ll also talk about how shadow work and psychodynamic practices can help you break through these barriers, build unshakeable confidence, and move into authentic coaching leadership. Whether you’re a new or aspiring coach, or a coach who’s ready to go deeper into their craft this episode is for you if you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and step into the coach you’re truly meant to be. Tune in and discover the high-level solution that will help you shift from self-doubt to coaching mastery. * Note: there is some adult language in this episode so wear earphones if you have sensitive ears around* Thanks so much for stopping by and until next time... much love. Amanda x *** About Amanda - Psychologist & Business Strategist: Amanda Davies is a multi award-winning business leader, a Registered Psychologist with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) for over 20 years, and a Certified Somatic Practitioner. As a Fellow of the Association for Coaching (AC), Amanda has made significant contributions to the industry and pioneered the world's first Psychodynamic Coaching methodology, reflecting her passion for integrating accessible coaching methodologies with Psychodynamics to achieve profound and lasting transformation. She is committed to supporting current and future leaders in the personal development industry, helping them deepen their craft and create a ripple effect of positive change. In 2015, Amanda transitioned from a successful corporate career to pursue her passion for empowering others. With over 20 years of diverse experience, she passionately believes that, regardless of your circumstances or the obstacles you face, you can achieve your full potential in this lifetime. Amanda has been featured in The Times, The Guardian, Yahoo Finance, The Telegraph, and Huffington Post. She was shortlisted as a finalist in the UK's National Business Awards (2017) and named as the UK's leading Business Mentor (2019). Her dedication to blending coaching methodologies with Psychodynamic principles sets her apart as a transformative force in the field of personal development. Amanda's Links: Become a Certified Psychodynamic Coach - Spring 2025 Early Bird Enrolment Open: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lightpurposeliving/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightpurposeliving/ Website: https://www.lightpurposeliving.com/ -------