The Counter-Narrative Show

Black Motherhood: Mother Daughter Relationships

In this heartfelt episode of My Black is Beautiful and My Melanin is Poppin: Beauty Blab, the host and her guests Corey Singletary and Arlene Blake dive into the complexities of Black motherhood, with a special focus on mother-daughter relationships. They explore nurturing, fostering individuality, open communication, generational parenting shifts, emotional support, and the impact of cultural and religious expectations. The conversation also touches on how beauty standards influence young Black girls and how today’s mothers aim to raise empowered, self-aware daughters.

Black Men Vote: Trump & Hillary

In a discussion on "Black Men Vote: Trump & Hillary," two black men with differing political views shared their perspectives. Derek, a Hillary supporter, expressed growing disillusionment with the political process, citing the system's limitations and the showmanship of candidates like Trump. OJ, a Trump supporter, emphasized the importance of economic opportunity and criticized the outsourcing of jobs. He argued that Trump's focus on trade policies and job creation is crucial, despite Trump's flaws. Both agreed on the need for higher voter turnout and the potential issues with the voting process, highlighting the importance of local and state-level voting. In the conversation, Speaker 1 promotes their social media presence across various platforms, encouraging engagement through likes, shares, and subscriptions. Speaker 3, identified as OJ Mallory, shares their Facebook profile for contact, mentioning their initial paranoia about facial recognition but later embracing it due to frequent tagging. Speaker 2, Derek, provides a link to their artwork website, Derek of Baltimore, and reiterates the availability of their work on Facebook. The conversation ends with Speaker 1 expressing gratitude and hinting at future discussions on topics like capitalism versus socialism.

Healing Black Families from the Inside Out

The discussion on healing Black families from the inside out featured Dr. Sharonda Davis, Donna Godfrey, Chasity Chandler, and Carl Laurie. Dr. Davis emphasized the importance of African American women owning their stories and destigmatizing therapy. Donna Godfrey highlighted the generational impact of violence and the need for open dialog. Chasity Chandler discussed the stigma around mental health and the role of black therapists. Carl Laurie stressed the interconnectedness of health aspects and the need for holistic approaches. Key coping strategies included acknowledging stress, asking for help, journaling, and practicing self-care.

The Politics of Social Work: Do Racialized Social Workers Belong in Policy Development

Rasheem and Candace discuss the role of racialized social workers in policy development. Candace, a recent MSW graduate, emphasizes the importance of social workers' frontline experience in addressing institutional and structural racism. She highlights the disjuncture between Canadian social work education's focus on direct practice and the need for broader policy engagement. Candace shares her research findings, noting the underrepresentation of racialized people in public administration and the need for their voices in policy-making. She advocates for social workers to be proactive in policy development and suggests strategies for self-care and engagement, including writing petitions and advocating for systemic changes.

Black LOVE: Polyamory & Other Exspansive Love Practices

The Counter-Narrative show discussed misconceptions about polyamory, emphasizing that it's not just about sex but involves deep emotional connections and communication. Participants shared their experiences, highlighting the importance of clear communication, setting boundaries, and managing jealousy. They discussed the challenges of coming out as polyamorous, especially within black and queer communities. Resources recommended included Facebook groups, books like "More Than Two" and "The Ethical Slut," and platforms like Clubhouse for learning and support. The conversation underscored the need for radical honesty and emotional intelligence in polyamorous relationships.