The Dates of Our Lives

The Sun - 19 - The Biggest Romance On Earth

In this episode Christy and Tanesia geek out on the sweetness of the sun card; exploring themes of romance, shedding protective layers, observing glimmers of magic and joy that transform our perspective on ourselves and the many relationships we cultivate. Stay connected! If you have a question for you've got mail, a hilarious dating story or just want to shower us with sweetness you can send correspondence to: datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com [datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com] or DM us via IG. We are on Apple, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.  Listen and share with all your crushes and besties! Follow us on Instagram @datesofourlivespod or on our website: datesofourlivespodcast.podbean.com   Links, Resources, Special Thanks Thank you Dr Jaguar for our intro and outro music & Christy Cook for "Darkest Day of the Year"  As mentioned... Tarot for Change by Jessica Dore  [https://www.jessicadore.com/] Sarah Cargill [https://open.spotify.com/episode/6m2FS9a9T6ribM2CKAWw0m?si=de115f32a3ec44b4]   #suncard #tarot #podcast #joy #glimmer #magic #solstice #romanceyourowndamnself #thebiggestromanceonearth #workit #ownit #tarotmagic #dating #romance    Published on December 30, 2024.

Episode 18 - Finding Your Erotic: Dancing with the Unhinged Moon

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia discuss the moon tarot card and Audre Lorde's essay Uses of the Erotic as they relate to pleasure, desire, and sexuality.  Listen as the dynamic duo sort through what makes them feel most alive, the possibilities of the unknown, what it means to harness our own feral, unhinged selves, to bathe in the the wildness of creativity,  eroticism, in all its many shapes and forms.  What do you really desire when the moon is round and full?         Special thanks to Dr. Jaguar for our intro music & "Menstruation" by Paul Clay and the Lab Family for the outro.   Resources and links mentioned in episode: Lindsay Mack [https://www.lindsaymack.com/] "The OA" on Netflix "Pina" the movie [https://www.youtube.com/watch?reload=9&v=F-cV74Mq7KU] The Cassandra Complex by Laurie Layton Schapira Maladoror by Le Compte de L'autreamont (Shark sex book) Inciting Joy by Ross Gay Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas Uses of the Erotic by Audre Lorde [https://www.centraleurasia.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/audre_lorde_cool-beans.pdf] Quinn App [https://www.tryquinn.com/] Naudio [https://naudiosounds.com/] (Tanesia's favorite "real fictional" audio crush)     #mooncardtarot #theerotic #erotica #pornographia #tarottalk #workwife #chaos #menstruationisnormal #connection #joy #desire #embodiment #tantra #fantasy #kink #flirting101 #abundance #creative #aliveness #grief #voidtimes #unknown #aliveness #dancing #learningmontages #community #audioerotica #romantasy #fantasy #darkromance #romanticfiction #power #smut #abundance #electrified #hornyfever #colonoscopy #shortking #thechurchgiggles #play #bonedoctors #enormity #disruptthepatriarchy #holdyourownlunacy #expertdaters    Published on Monday November 25, 2024.

Episode 17 - Star Date (-1298730.23)

In this episode Christy and Tanesia wax dreamy while discussing the Star Card, reflecting on the ancient watery quiet emanating off of it, and the experiences they had on much needed dates with themselves.  Get cozy, light some incense, and listen to these lilting and wandering musings!    #starcardtarot #datewithyourself #artistdate #JuliaCameron #datesofourlivespodcast If you have questions for “You’ve Got Mail” DM on instagram @dateofourlivespod or write to us at datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com [datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com].  We love to hear your dating questions, tarot questions, and everything in between!   Thanks to Dr. Jaguar for the music!       Published on April 8, 2024

Episode 16 - The Fesitval of the Towering Dong

An 8 ft long, 1 foot wide episode about all things ding-a-ling.  In our longest episode yet (1 hour 56 minutes–not that we’re measuring it or anything), Christy and Tanesia discuss slang words, biological phenomena, pegging, strap-ons, actual penis festivals, and the messages of the tower card as they relate to creative energy, receptivity and the beauty of embodying both penetrative and slurpy receptive sexual energy.  Tanesia also interviews special guest Rudy Montoya asking an expert all our curiousest queries.   Thanks to Dr Jaguar for original intro music.  Thank you Rudy Montoya for being our guest expert and answering our questions! Thank you Chuck Berry for writing “My Ding-a-Ling.” Outro cover of this song performed by Christy Cook.   This is an uncommonly LONG episode.  We thought we’d provide you with a Table of Contents in case it’s too much to take all at once.   2:30 Free Association 5:41 Name that Dong 10:37 Penis Lore - Biology!  34:15 Strap ons 52:00 Actual Penis Festivals 1:02 Bringing it back to the Tarot 1:09 Phallacies - Quick fire questions with Special guest Rudy Montoya     Fact check: echidnas are MONOTREMES (egg laying mammals) to note: their young are called “puggles.”   For a more scientifically rendered tale of tarantula sex see:  https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/eaten-crushed-or-starved-male-tarantulas-trade-their-life-to-impregnate-a-mate/#:~:text=Using%20a%20specialized%20appendage%20near,into%20the%20female's%20abdominal%20cavity [https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/eaten-crushed-or-starved-male-tarantulas-trade-their-life-to-impregnate-a-mate/#:~:text=Using%20a%20specialized%20appendage%20near,into%20the%20female]   Other resources and articles:   Animal Penii: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/nine-weirdest-penises-animal-kingdom-180976274/ [https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/nine-weirdest-penises-animal-kingdom-180976274/]   Slug Mating Magic:  https://youtu.be/ST_AEmm3GmI?si=gZ8DI-DTK-MtE4mC   Strap ons: https://g-silicone.com/2017/09/01/history-strapon-sex/ [https://g-silicone.com/2017/09/01/history-strapon-sex/]   https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29902964/why-women-like-pegging-men/ [https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29902964/why-women-like-pegging-men/]   Further Reading on Kanamara Matsuri: https://theculturetrip.com/asia/japan/articles/how-to-celebrate-kanamara-matsuri-tokyos-penis-festival [https://theculturetrip.com/asia/japan/articles/how-to-celebrate-kanamara-matsuri-tokyos-penis-festival]   #slugsex #EFFthePatriarchy #Podcast #Podwifelife #TheTower #towercardtarot #magic #penisduels #totheinsemination  #hemipenis #prongeddong #prehensilepenis #penislore #FestivaloftheToweringDong #phallophoria #suitofwands #towercardtarot #creativeenergy #maypole #joystick #generderfuckery  #kanamaramatsuri #penispops #penispuns #turtlemode #toxicmasculinity #manscaping #penisculture #dicpick #tradingcards #bigdickenergy #bigdaddyenergy #dingaling #strapons #ancestraldildos #releasethefloodgates #femmegushing #bourani   Published March 25, 2024

Episode 15 - Devilishly Powerful

Welcome baaack to the Dates of Our Lives.  Join Tanesia and Christy as they introduce the third season of the pod, and chat about the third line of the Tarot, the Devil Card, and how person power intersects relationships in magical ways. #deviltarotcard #datesofourlivespodcast #personalpower #tarot #magic #relationships   Please send your dating/magic questions to our instagram @datesofourlivespod or to datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com [datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com]for "You've Got Mail!!"   Thank you Dr. Jaguar Bashwiner for our theme music.   Influences and mentions: the work of Sarah Faith Gottesdiener (SFG), and Bess Matassa's Tarot Almanac!