How to Communicate More Effectively With Those Around Me
A few years ago, a friend recommended I read the book, Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office. At the time, I had been participating in a mastermind with a diverse group of women. As we exchanged stories throughout the session, the friend heard me say something that reminded her of the book. Looking back, it was probably one of those situations where I undersold myself or sounded uncertain, or maybe even asked a question when I should have been making a statement.
Has this ever happened to you before? Have you said something, but the way it sounded or the way it came off wasn’t exactly like you intended?
It has for me more times than I’d like to admit. Quite frankly in the past there were times when I was not even aware that what I was saying was not landing with my intended purpose.
How we’re wired affects our behavior, our way of thinking, and our communication style. There’s so much to unpack in just this piece alone. Our wiring is comprised of heredity, environment, and situations. Embedded in this is societal norms that complicate our delivery and interaction with each other. This plays out in our relationships – at work, home, and with our circle of friends.
In this, my second episode, I am going to be talking to you about how what we say does not always come across in the way we intend. I’ve done extensive study of human behavior, how we are wired, and how that impacts the way we communicate. Even with all that I’ve studied, I am continuously learning more and more about predictable behavior and ways to improve the effectiveness of my interaction with others.
So, are you ready?
Let’s dig in.