The Knowing... A Life in Stories Podcast with Jesse de Leon

Is There a Difference Between Spoiled and Entitled?

Building confidence through affection and family relationships is the secret ingredient to a life well-lived. ✨ Jesse reflects on a provocative question asked at a crawfish boil: "Are you spoiled?" While the dictionary might suggest entitlement, Jesse argues that being spoiled with love, attention, and high expectations is what gave him the courage to chase his dreams from the streets of New Orleans to across the world. This episode breaks down the generational differences in parenting, the power of a "prince-like" upbringing focused on character, and how to overcome social anxiety by focusing on others. Learn how to shower those you love with the kind of attention that builds them up rather than breaking them down. 🌟 Subscribe to the podcast, join our YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast 00:48 Welcoming the Audience 01:03 The Birthday Party Question 01:15 Reflections on Crawfish Season 01:54 Defining What Spoiled Means 02:42 Analyzing Dictionary Definitions 03:30 Spoiled with Family Love 04:12 Nurturing Sibling Relationships 05:05 Building Self-Confidence Early 05:43 Master Class in Social Etiquette 06:12 The Power of First Impressions 07:11 The Importance of Feeling Secure 07:54 Generational Differences in Parenting 08:50 Danger of Overindulging Children 09:40 Balancing Love and Entitlement 10:10 Giving Heartfelt Gifts 10:58 Pursuing Childhood Dreams 11:53 Overcoming Social Insecurity 12:35 Tips for Active Listening 13:21 Managing Perceptions of Confidence 13:59 Final Reflections on Love

Can You Find God When You're Feeling Insecure?

Do you struggle with spiritual growth and feel hindered by religious intimidation in your daily life? You aren't alone in feeling like you don't fit into the "perfect" picture of faith or society. In this episode, Jesse explores why we often feel unworthy, intimidated by authority, and disconnected from our own inner voice. We break down the walls of insecurity—from that middle-school desire to be popular to the adult struggles of material desire and the search for validation. This isn't just about faith; it's about claiming your space, finding your own "transcendent" moments, and realizing that your vulnerabilities are the bridge to true connection. If you've been searching for a sign to stop worrying about what others think and start trusting your own path, this is the episode for you. Let's find your confidence together. 🌟 Don't miss out on these conversations! Subscribe to the podcast, join the YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content. 🎙️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Knowing 00:49 Addressing Religious Intimidation 01:40 Celebrating Family and Mentors 03:23 Understanding History and Church 06:32 Jesus and Personal Confidence 07:41 Deflating Religious Insecurities 11:05 Why Can't I Hear God? 13:53 Conflicted Right and Wrong 14:15 Humanizing Priests and Leaders 16:21 Overcoming Fear of Judgment 18:53 Addressing Material and Physical Desires 22:18 The Power of Transcendence 24:04 Finding Peace and Confidence

Are You Truly Listening to Your Partner?

Do you feel safe in your relationship, or does your communication often fall apart into heated arguments? 🗣️ In this episode, we explore the keys to effective relationship communication and emotional safety by practicing active listening. Even the best partnerships face challenges, and it is easy for ego and pride to derail a meaningful connection. Join me, Jesse de Leon, as we pull back the curtain on why we stop listening to those we love most and how to break the cycle of defensiveness. We dig into the power of vulnerability, the importance of slowing down when things get intense, and why admitting we need to grow is a sign of strength—not weakness. Whether you are navigating marriage, dating, or challenging family dynamics, this will help you create a more loving, open space for dialogue. Let's learn to prioritize connection over being right. 💖 Subscribe to the podcast, join the YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon for more inspiring content! 00:49 Understanding Communication Struggles 02:26 Shared Relationship Challenges 04:02 Breaking Old Relationship Patterns 05:50 Avoiding Heated Arguments 07:25 The Art of Active Listening 09:54 Embracing Vulnerability in Love 12:38 Learning to De-escalate Calmly 15:09 Processing Feelings Before Reacting 17:51 The Power of Apologies and Closing

Can One Conversation Change Your Life? Finding Freedom Through Faith and Human Connection

Do you struggle with overcoming grudges or finding meaningful conversations that truly resonate with your soul? In this episode, Jesse De Leon dives into the necessity of forgiveness and the importance of spiritual growth in our everyday lives. 🕊️ Jesse breaks down how gossiping can hinder our progress and how practicing the art of listening can open doors to unexpected friendships and new opportunities. From his recent encounter with a fighter pilot to his personal tips on maintaining a healthy, balanced lifestyle, Jesse provides a roadmap for anyone feeling stuck or searching for direction. If you need a gentle nudge to let go of the past and embrace a future filled with peace, this episode is for you. Learn to silence the noise, focus on your potential, and cultivate stronger bonds with those around you. Subscribe to The Knowing, join our YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for more stories! 🚀✨ 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Vision 01:12 The Power of Confession 03:50 Trusting the Holy Spirit 05:55 Overcoming Lingering Grudges 08:21 The Dangers of Gossip 11:20 Mastering Active Listening 13:13 The Fighter Pilot Story 14:38 Making New Friends 15:19 Skincare and Health Tips 16:59 The Importance of Reading

Are You Tired of Living in the Shadows of Shame? ⚔️

Host Jesse de Leon dives deep into the spiritual and emotional journey of coming out of the "dark closet" and into a life of authenticity. Using the story of King David and his own powerful experience in the confessional, Jesse explains how fear often acts as a barrier to our true purpose. 🕯️ This episode offers a compassionate roadmap for those struggling with guilt or feeling like a "perpetual liar," proving that your perceived imperfections are exactly where God's light wants to shine. Join us for a discussion that is as liberating as it is heartfelt. 🙏 Subscribe to the podcast, join our YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content. 00:00 Introduction to The Knowing 01:05 Facing the Darkness of Shame 02:18 The Power of Vulnerable Confession 03:32 Lessons from the Anointing of David 05:40 Overcoming Fear and Running Toward the Roar 07:22 Living as Children of Light 08:21 Jesse's Journey: Coming Out of Secrecy 09:44 Healing Through Family Acceptance 10:45 Breaking Free from Addiction 12:15 Understanding Unanswered Prayers 13:40 The Freedom of Being Known by Friends 15:10 Men and the Courage to Love 16:15 Defeating the Shadows of Self-Loathing 17:35 Choosing to See the Heart of Others 18:10 Conclusion: Walking Together in the Light