The Magic in the Middle

EP 20 Below the Surface: Why High Achievers Doubt Themselves and What Actually Shifts It with Sabine Lehner

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/fan_mail/new] You have the track record. You have the experience. You have done hard things before. So why does that voice inside still whisper that you are not enough? In this deeply illuminating episode of The Magic in the Middle, Sarah sits down with her friend, executive coach, and clinical hypnotherapist Sabine Lehner, founder of Turnaround Practice in Australia, for a conversation that goes far below the surface of confidence, doubt, and what it actually takes to change the tapes that have been running your life. Sabine spent nearly a decade in finance before a single moment with a colleague in tears showed her that people mattered more to her than numbers ever would. She walked out of that office on a Thursday and never went back. What followed was a decade of deep study, corporate transformation work across three continents, and the creation of a coaching practice that does something most coaches never do: it goes straight to the subconscious source. And while Sabine works with leaders and high achievers, everything she shares in this episode is for every single one of us. Because the subconscious mind does not care whether you run a company or a household, whether you are a CEO or a creative, a parent or a student. The old tapes run the same in all of us. The patterns formed in childhood do not check your job title before they show up. And the freedom that comes from finally understanding what has been quietly running your life belongs to everyone. Because here is what Sabine knows, and Sarah knows from personal experience: you cannot think your way out of a subconscious pattern. And until you find the old tape that is running in the background, all the strategy in the world will only take you so far. In this conversation you will discover: * Why high achievers are often the most secretly insecure people in the room, and the surprising reason why their success makes the doubt louder, not quieter * The difference between doubt that is undermining you and doubt that is actually your wisest informing agent, and why knowing which is which changes everything * How Sabine combines clinical hypnotherapy with executive coaching to clear the window so you can finally see your situation, your strengths, and your path forward with total clarity * Why an 18 minute guided hypnotherapy session can shift something that years of talk therapy never touched * The moving goalpost pattern that keeps high achievers perpetually feeling like they are falling short, no matter how much they achieve * How stress literally narrows your thinking and sends you straight back to a belief you formed at age 10, and what to do the moment you feel that happening * Why unshakeable confidence is not the goal, and what emotional intelligence has to do with genuine, grounded success Sarah speaks personally in this episode about her own experience working with Sabine, and what shifted in her when the old tapes finally stopped running. This is one of the most practical, science-grounded, and quietly transformational conversations The Magic in the Middle has ever hosted so far. You are not your doubt. You never were. And there is a way through that is faster and more freeing than you might ever have imagined. Grab Sabine's free confidence audio gift here: https://www.turnaroundpractice.au/confidence-audio [https://www.turnaroundpractice.au/confidence-audio] Book a free 30 minute consultation with Sabine here: https://book.turnaroundpractice.au/30-min-marrvelous-life [https://book.turnaroundpractice.au/30-min-marrvelous-life] Find Sabine Lehner and the Turnaround Practice at https://www.turnaroundpractice.au/ [https://www.turnaroundpractice.au/]  Join Sarah's free Qigong practice group, Monday through Friday, 7 to 7:35am Pacific on Zoom. Learn more at marrvelouslife.com. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/support] Thank you for spending this time in The Magic in the Middle. If this episode supported you, follow the show and continue exploring the space where science meets spirituality and life begins to flow with greater clarity, joy, and ease. New episodes are released every Monday. If someone you love would benefit from this conversation, share it with them. Every time you listen, follow, or share, you help this community grow and support more people reconnecting with the brilliance already within them. You are deeply loved.

Ep 19 Growing Pains Are Good: How to Calm Your Nervous System and Grow Beyond Your Edges

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/fan_mail/new] That panic you feel right before you take the next step? That voice saying who do you think you are? That is not a stop sign. That is proof you are growing. In this episode of The Magic in the Middle, Sarah gets beautifully raw and real about her own nervous system, sharing the panic that still visits her as she steps deeper into this podcast, this work, and the next greatest version of herself. From painfully shy and self-loathing to leading Qigong in front of thousands, she is walking this path right alongside you, and she wants you to know: the growing pains are not the problem. They are the invitation. This episode builds on last week's guided manifestation practice and goes even deeper, giving you the science and the somatic tools to keep your nervous system on your side as you expand. In this episode you will discover: * Why your excuses, your fear, and your resistance are not character flaws but your nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do * Three powerful somatic techniques to calm your nervous system in real time, including the Voo breath, the sniff and exhale, and the shoulder tap practice * How to speak directly to the frightened part of yourself with love instead of frustration, and why that changes everything * Why what we resist persists and how loving the monkey mind rather than fighting it is the key to finally moving through it * How the Fire Horse energy of 2026 is making this the most potent time in 60 years to release old karma, old patterns, and old stories that have been keeping you small * Why your growing pains, just like a teenager's, are simply proof that you are becoming more Sarah speaks not from theory but from a lifetime of hard-won healing. This is practical, loving, grounded wisdom for anyone who is ready to grow and just needs to know it is safe to do so. You are safe. You are growing. And those two things can absolutely be true at the same time. Join Sarah's free Qigong practice group, Monday through Friday, 7 to 7:35am Pacific on Zoom. Learn more at marrvelouslife.com. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/support] Thank you for spending this time in The Magic in the Middle. If this episode supported you, follow the show and continue exploring the space where science meets spirituality and life begins to flow with greater clarity, joy, and ease. New episodes are released every Monday. If someone you love would benefit from this conversation, share it with them. Every time you listen, follow, or share, you help this community grow and support more people reconnecting with the brilliance already within them. You are deeply loved.

EP 18 Love Is Your Birthright: A Guided Inner Child Healing Practice to Set Your Light Free

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/fan_mail/new] You came into this world pure, whole, and worthy of love. No conditions. No performance required. Somewhere along the way, someone forgot to tell you that. In this deeply healing episode of The Magic in the Middle, Sarah takes you on a guided inner child journey unlike anything you may have experienced before. Not back into the pain. Not to relive what hurt. But into the arms of the little one inside you who has been waiting, maybe for decades, to finally feel safe, seen, and loved exactly as they are. Sarah shares her own raw, tender discovery, the little girl curled up in the corner of her bedroom, feeling small, feeling wrong, feeling like she had to earn the very roof over her head. And then she shows you what she did with that. She held her. She loved her. And everything began to shift. This episode is an invitation for you to do the same. In this guided practice you will experience: * A gentle, somatic inner child visualization you can return to again and again, no prior experience needed * How to locate the part of you that still carries old fear, shame, or unworthiness and meet it with love instead of resistance * Why the nervous system panic, the self-doubt, and the feeling of not being safe often trace back to a moment in childhood, and how healing that child heals you now * The practice of calling in your spiritual team to shower that child with the love they always deserved * How this single practice can shift health, spirit, and mental wellbeing because everything, including old pain, is energy, and energy can be transformed * Why loving the parts of yourself you have judged the most is the key to breaking down the walls that have been covering your light Sarah healed suicidal depression and severe anxiety through Qigong and inner child work. This is not theory. This is a lived path. And she is walking it right alongside you. You were never broken. You never needed to be fixed. You only needed to be loved. Come back to this one as often as you need to. That child inside you is worth every single visit. Join Sarah's free Qigong practice group, Monday through Friday, 7 to 7:35am Pacific on Zoom. Learn more at marrvelouslife.com. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/support] Thank you for spending this time in The Magic in the Middle. If this episode supported you, follow the show and continue exploring the space where science meets spirituality and life begins to flow with greater clarity, joy, and ease. New episodes are released every Monday. If someone you love would benefit from this conversation, share it with them. Every time you listen, follow, or share, you help this community grow and support more people reconnecting with the brilliance already within them. You are deeply loved.

Ep 17 I Have Risen: The Easter Morning I Mourned My Old Self and Found My Light

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/fan_mail/new] It was Easter Sunday. Sarah woke up feeling sad, heavy, and off. Not exactly the energy of resurrection. But what happened next was exactly that. In this intimate, soul-baring episode of The Magic in the Middle, Sarah shares a deeply personal Easter morning practice that started as one thing and became something she never expected. She sat down to write about how she was feeling, intending to burn the page and let it go. What poured out instead was a journey from mourning to rising, from loss to light, from the old self falling away to something bright and new being born. She reads it to you, exactly as she wrote it. Messy handwriting and all. This episode is an invitation to try this practice for yourself, because you deserve to pause. You deserve your own attention. And there is something inside you right now, waiting to be seen, loved, and released so that your light can finally come forward. In this episode you will discover: * The free writing and burn practice and why putting pen to paper is one of the most powerful energetic tools you have * Why sometimes what feels like sadness or mourning is actually the old you falling away to make room for who you are becoming * How Sarah moved from heavy and humdrum to feeling light, protected, loved, and cheered on, all through one unexpected writing session * Why writing by hand carries an energetic charge that typing simply cannot replicate * How to check in with yourself throughout the day, even in a busy office, even with five minutes and a piece of paper * The difference between feeling your feelings and being consumed by them, and how the tools Sarah teaches help you do exactly that No matter your faith, your background, or what this season means to you, this episode holds something for everyone. Spring, Easter, rebirth, the shedding of what no longer serves, these are universal truths written into nature itself. You have been squashed. You have been covered. And that light inside you has never gone out. It is time to rise. Join Sarah's free Qigong practice group, Monday through Friday, 7 to 7:35am Pacific on Zoom. Learn more at marrvelouslife.com. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/support] Thank you for spending this time in The Magic in the Middle. If this episode supported you, follow the show and continue exploring the space where science meets spirituality and life begins to flow with greater clarity, joy, and ease. New episodes are released every Monday. If someone you love would benefit from this conversation, share it with them. Every time you listen, follow, or share, you help this community grow and support more people reconnecting with the brilliance already within them. You are deeply loved.

Ep 16 Make Fun a Habit: Mike Rucker, PhD on the Science of Joy, Play, and Living Fully

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/fan_mail/new] What if you stopped putting fun on hold until life felt easier and you have more time? What if research says fun is not a luxury at all, but one of the most restorative tools you have? In this conversation-packed, science-rich episode of The Magic in the Middle, Sarah sits down with Mike Rucker, PhD, behavioral scientist, author of The Fun Habit, and fellow Chapman University alum, who found each other again across decades through the most magical of coincidences. What followed was one of the most refreshing, permission-giving conversations this show has ever had. Mike spent years immersed in positive psychology, convinced he had the tools to wheel himself out of the hardest season of his life, the sudden loss of his younger brother, the discovery of a hip injury that ended his running, and the slow erosion of the identity he had built around his body and his joy. The tools did not work. Not because they were wrong, but because he was chasing the wrong thing. That search led him to fun, and it changed everything. This episode will make you laugh, make you think, and quite possibly make you look at your week in a completely new way. In this episode you will discover: * Why chasing happiness can actually make you more miserable, and what the research says to do instead * The four quadrant PLAY model, Pleasing, Living, Agonizing, and Yielding, and how to use it to redesign your 168 hours/ week so fun stops being an afterthought * Why the body cannot tell the difference between fun you planned and fun that just happened, and how to use that to your advantage * How Mike completed an Ironman in board shorts and a mohawk by making the whole thing fun, and why that approach beat grit every time * Why yielding behaviors like doom scrolling feel like rest but leave you more depleted, and the simple science behind breaking that cycle * The surprising research on how people whose fun cups are full become the most productive, the most generous, and the most resilient * Why in a world that feels heavy and uncertain right now, fun is not a luxury. It is essential to thrive. * And where Mike finds his own magic in the middle, the mystery of quantum mechanics, the beauty of not knowing, and why feeling small in the universe is actually the most freeing thing of all Mike is warm, funny, deeply human, and extraordinarily well researched. This is the episode you share with someone who needs permission to enjoy their life again. Find Mike at mikerucker.com [https://michaelrucker.com/start-here/] and take the Fun Type Calculator [https://michaelrucker.com/having-fun/fun-type-calculator/]to discover your personal fun profile. Pick up The Fun Habit wherever books are sold. Join Sarah's free Qigong practice group, Monday through Friday, 7 to 7:35am Pacific on Zoom. Learn more at marrvelouslife.com [https://marrvelouslife.com/]. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571681/support] Thank you for spending this time in The Magic in the Middle. If this episode supported you, follow the show and continue exploring the space where science meets spirituality and life begins to flow with greater clarity, joy, and ease. New episodes are released every Monday. If someone you love would benefit from this conversation, share it with them. Every time you listen, follow, or share, you help this community grow and support more people reconnecting with the brilliance already within them. You are deeply loved.