The Man Myth

Episode 60 with Adam Jablin, the "Hero Project"

In this episode we discuss the "Hero Project" with Adam Jablin.  We dip into spiritualism, religion, addiction and how to be your own Superhero.  .  This is a great episode as we discuss a miriad of topics which includes ego and masculinity that will hopefully touch each person that listens. https://lddy.no/1fmyh https://shankitgolf.com/?ref=v2m0a2mu

Cass Morrow

Okay guys hold on to your hat!  Cass brings the heat and opens up the rawness of a ton of shadow experience and how he and his wife over came it and start teaching what they learned.   A little about Cass. Cass has been privileged to work with 3200 men in my first 22 months of business. Kathryn wife, just over 1000 women. They have the ability to polarize their audience with their story, their out-of- the-box thinking and really, the lessons they have learned to save their toxic, abusive and sexless marriage. They are also incredible at creating systems that circumvent the "normal" way Society encourages saving or, even simply, helping struggling marriages. Cass, as a managing, self-aware, severe narcissist who only knew 7 day anger binges and how to emotionally abuse, physically and sexually assault his wife... It’s no wonder they separated 7 times... He had restraining order and 1 year of probation after being charged with assault… He was going to lose it all. So Cass began to learn. 14 years of therapy did not work. Court mandated anger management... nothing. It's no wonder Society's solutions are not working, and divorce rates are climbing. Cass got to work. Kathryn followed his lead. Between Cass and Kathryn, They have spent $380,000 on courses, certifications, diplomas, degrees, books and countless coaches and mentors. With 250K followers and growing it feels like their mission is inevitable!    We talk about the nice guy syndrome, and how men have lost the ability to be strong and be there for themselves and others.   He also mentioned some readings and the "nice guy triangle".   Huge thanks for him to join us you may not agree with everything he says but you definitely will learn from this conversation! He also suggested to read (listen to) "No More Mr Nice Guy". written Dr Robert Glover! I've started it and it’s very eye opening...... You can find cass morrow and all his social media here!!! http://links.morrowmarriage.com/ [http://links.morrowmarriage.com/] https://lddy.no/1fmyh https://shankitgolf.com/?ref=v2m0a2mu

Dreams Dreams Dreams

This was a fun episode!  Talking about dreams and how they can motivate or sabotage us.  Confusing dreams with wants or needs can create a smaller steps forward because ego doesn't want us to be too successful.  Seeking to see what we are really asking for with the dreams without the fear of actually blocking what we want.  It seems a little weird thinking dreams can actually keep us from getting want we want or deserve.  We’ve pointed out the limitations of our core wounding and how it can interfere with our true needs and wants.  Feeling back to the old saying “dream big” which is given to those that are more afraid of success then failure. We also tap into why some don’t dream, or why they don’t remember them.  It is important to write dreams down when and if you do remember them.  We can also help getting into the natural dream state by not eating too late, journaling what subject of the  dreams you would like to explore and having the intent to remember them.  Touching on lucent dreaming and how to work to get to that state for more help in seeing what is available.  All in all there are many lessons in dreaming and in the not dreaming. So keep a journal by your bed, create and intention to dream and write them down after the dream not waiting until morning so the real is much clearer. https://lddy.no/1fmyh https://shankitgolf.com/?ref=v2m0a2mu

I AM

“I AM”   This one hits me deep.  I (Pop) had an experience of this looking to the core of myself and it hit me out of no where.  During a Chiropractic Seminar a slide came up and stated simply “I AM”.  This made me realize I really didn’t feel like I knew who I was.  Hiding behind my strength, I was caught me off guard and it hit my heart so strongly.  I cried without feeling weak, what did this mean. Where did this come from.  How or what was the lesson this was going to teach me?  At that time I didn't feel shame or lack.  It actually made me feel happy that I got to explore who I am.  Bobby had a similar epiphany, where his heart and soul was opened.  Remembering what you do is not who your are.  I remember working with a mentor and she asked why I assumed the protector role.  I said it what I do, and she said no, its who you are, it not something you just do it’s part of your essence.  It would be a great for you to get a sense of your “I AM”. Get solid with that feeling so what others flip your triggers, you can be unwavering in your you-ness!  Write “I Am” on a paper and feel in your heart and get to know yourself! https://lddy.no/1fmyh https://shankitgolf.com/?ref=v2m0a2mu

You Cant Handle the Truth

In this episode we discuss if "these pants make my butt look big?"  "You can't handle the truth"......Of course, referring back to the Jack Nicholson scene in the movie  "A Few Good Men".  We discuss how in relationships there are occasionally (sometimes more) questions have that have no good answers. Questions that trap the other person into a no win situation.  Then, if that becomes a common theme, how we aren't able to tell the truth.  Especially if things have been held against us from previous conversations.  We need to be given questions that are, in essence, safe to answer truthfully.  We also discuss about how the relationship becomes a competition once the scoring starts.  This episode is a little shorter but full of good insight and situational references. https://lddy.no/1fmyh https://shankitgolf.com/?ref=v2m0a2mu