The Career Decision Room - 5 Career Truths Most Leaders Avoid
This episode was a little different.
I was not the host asking the questions I was in the hot seat. Communications strategist and stellar wordsmith Matt Pears turned the tables and put me through "The Career Decision Room": a set of powerful questions designed to uncover the 5 blind spots that quietly shape and limit our careers. What emerged was not just a conversation. It was a series of uncomfortable truths that I believe every professional especially high performers need to hear.
The most impactful takeaways:
1. Your Employer Is Not Your Career Strategy One of the most common traps I see is professional people outsourcing responsibility for their career to their current employer. I did it myself early on stayed in a business for 10 years, performed well, led strong teams… but my career stalled. Here’s the reality: lifetime employment is largely gone. If you rely on your company to drive your long-term progression, eventually you’ll hit a shock restructure, redundancy, or simply being overlooked. The shift: treat your career like a series of tours of duty.
Deliver value, solve problems but always be thinking, what’s next, and what’s next next? Control comes from anticipation, not reaction.
2. Think in Career Cycles, Not Job Titles One of the most powerful frameworks we discussed is thinking in four-year career cycles, inspired by Olympic gold medal winning athletes. Elite athletes don’t just train randomly they map backwards from the Olympics, to the World Championships, to what they need to do this year, this month, even this week. Your career should be no different. If you know your “next-next” move, then every decision you take today should move you closer to that.
That might mean deliberately choosing roles that build missing capabilities, not just chasing the next promotion. Without that clarity, you’re just reacting to opportunities. And when you react, someone else is driving.
3. Stop Job Hunting Start Problem Hunting This is a major mindset shift. Most professionals approach the market asking: “What jobs are available?” The better question is: “What business problems exist and where can I add the most value?” Every role exists for one of three reasons: To protect and grow revenue To reduce transaction costs
To mitigate risk When you understand that, you stop positioning yourself as a candidate and start positioning yourself as a solution. I shared an example of a client who made just 10 calls into his network not asking for jobs, but exploring business challenges and turned that into four offers. That’s the difference between chasing roles and creating them.
4. High Performance Alone Is Not Enough This is where it gets uncomfortable. We all want to believe that performance equals progression. But the truth is, once you reach a baseline of competence, decisions are rarely made on merit alone. They are made on trust, relationships, and advocacy. The best jobs don’t always go to the most qualified they often go to the most connected. You need people in the room speaking for you when you’re not there. That’s sponsorship. Sponsorship isn’t about being liked it’s about aligned mutual self-interest.
When you help influential people solve their biggest problems, they can become invested in your success. If no one is advocating for you, in a career decision making room, you’re at a disadvantage no matter how good your performance.
5. You Don’t Get Paid What You’re Worth You Get Paid What You Negotiate This is a harsh truth, but an important one. Many professionals underestimate their value or fail to articulate it. Negotiation isn’t about pushing for more it’s about clearly demonstrating the impact you bring. It has to be win/win. That means understanding:
The value you create (Increasing revenue, Reducing transaction cost, Mitigating risk) What makes you rare and valuable Who the real decision-makers are Importantly, approaching each discussion as a peer-to-peer conversation, not an interview dynamic where you give away your agency.
The Mindset That Ties It All Together Aim for multiple wins. When you help the industry, the company, the leadership, and the team win you create an environment where your success becomes inevitable. In my experience when I focus on helping others achieve their ambitions, the doors tend to open.
Final Thought Each element we discussed:
Self-awareness
Networking - Accessing the hidden job market
Negotiation Infinite mindset... ...is learnable.
The difference that makes the difference is whether you choose to be intentional, if you don’t design your career…someone else will. I wish you every success in owning your story and career: adrian@adrianevans.co.uk