007 - The Uplift Project: Finding confidence through strength with former IFBB Figure competitor Barbara Kiss
What does it actually mean to feel confident in your body — not just look confident, but genuinely feel it from the inside out?
In this episode, I sit down with Barbra Kiss — IFBB Pro figure competitor turned CrossFit and strength athlete — to talk about one of the most underrated shifts a woman can make: moving from training her body to look a certain way, to discovering what her body can actually do.
We get into the real cost of competing at a high level, what it feels like to walk away from something you've been defined by, and why starting over as a beginner past 30 might be the most freeing thing you ever do. This is a conversation about strength, self-trust, and the kind of confidence that doesn't disappear when the abs do.
If you're stepping away from a sport, trying something new, or rebuilding your relationship with your body — this one's for you.
> "Strong isn't a size, it isn't a placing, and it definitely isn't a reflection in the mirror. It's what you discover when you stop performing for everyone else and start showing up for yourself."
What We Cover
* What life as an IFBB Pro figure competitor really felt like day to day
* The moment Barbra knew there was something beyond the stage
* Being a beginner again — the ego check of starting from scratch
* Confidence beyond aesthetics: what it means and why it matters
* Why women need to physically feel strong, not just be told they are
* What stops women over 30 from trying something new
* Building self-trust when the feedback isn't there yet
* How discipline evolves when there's no competition to train for
* What to say to the woman standing at the edge of something new and terrifying
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Your host Scarlett Portues - Thanks for listening,
You can find more information on the Uplift Project at - @theupliftproject1 on instagram where we have our next 12 week group intake OPEN NOW (Closes May 9th).
I'm more than proud to have worked with females for the last 6 years both in physique development, strength and real lifestyle change.