Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend. You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event. Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental cock-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection. In this Episode: * Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover * Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys * Playrooms vs private rooms * Lingerie catwalk moments * Introverts in the lifestyle * Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments * Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up * Open-door hotel rooms   Useful Links from this Episode * Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/ [https://libertineevents.com/] * Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ [https://wanderlustswingers.com/] * Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder [https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder] * Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 [https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122] * Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/ [https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/]  * Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V [https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V]    Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Event Stories, Lifestyle Takeover Review, What Happens at a Swingers Hotel Takeover, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, First Swingers Event Advice, Playroom Etiquette, Swinger Confidence Tips, Meeting Couples at Events, Swinger Lifestyle Interviews, How to Survive a Swingers Takeover, Soft Swap Story, Group Play Story, Swinger Couple Dynamics, Swinger Travel Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events Review.

Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap. We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights. In this episode: - Our Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, logistics, location, and first impressions. - Friday single-male night vs Saturday’s more couples-heavy energy. - Dungeon play: a sensual, soft-swap session in the catacombs and how we navigated boundaries. - Why dress down rules and playroom etiquette matter more than most people think. - Dealing with vibe-killers (like BV and fully clothed spectators) without shaming anyone. - Swinger success tips: dressing down, mingling beyond your friend group, and following up on missed connections.   Watch the Le Boudoir YouTube Club Tour   https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7 [https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7]   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – Lifestyle takeovers & events: https://libertineevents.com/ [https://libertineevents.com/] Patreon – See the Dress Down Lingerie Cate wore: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder [https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder] Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ [https://wanderlustswingers.com/] Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 [https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122]   Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, Halloween Swingers Party, London Swingers Club, Soft Swap Story, Dungeon Play, Hotwife Podcast, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Are Dirty Vanillas A Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties) Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy? In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or just a different lane of fun? * Dirty Vanilla 101: what the term actually means (monogamous couples who love the vibe, flirting, lingerie, but don’t play) and why it’s often used as a slur in the lifestyle. * Marketing or Epidemic? Swinger events advertised as “dance parties” on TikTok/IG and “swinger parties” on dating sites – who’s actually to blame: the crowd, or the promoters? * Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties: Dutch club takeovers, 1200-person Amsterdam “swinger” events with no licensed playrooms, and the fetish / dirty vanilla / swinger mash-up that pleases no one. * Are we the problem? Cate & Darrell realise their expectations were stuck in “old school swinger” mode while the culture has shifted under their feet. * Listener Q – Tim: “We’re exclusive. Can we go to a swingers club just for the vibe?” Cate’s nuanced yes, Darrell’s “please do!” and why intention + contribution matters more than labels. We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world? Coming Up Next EP209 - Halloween weekend in London, MFMs, costumes, and chaos: stories from the playroom and beyond.   Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France): https://libertineevents.com/ [https://libertineevents.com/] Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder [https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder] Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ [https://wanderlustswingers.com/] Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 [https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122]   Swinger Podcast, Dirty Vanilla, Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties, Lifestyle Event Politics, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Sex-Positive Events, Consent & Drugs in the Lifestyle, Fetish vs Swinger Culture, Hotel Takeovers, Lifestyle Travel, Libertine Events

How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?) Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry. * Social V's Sexy: why holding court makes you look “unavailable,” the “talk block,” and how intent signals attraction better than endless banter. * 6 Social Archetypes that Miss the Moment: the MC, the Talker, the Broad Flirt, the RBF, the “One More Drink,” and the Ghost * Poll Results: 47% chat and forget to switch to play; 47% sometimes drift that way * From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”) * Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom * Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte). Coming Up Next EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations. Useful Links from this Episode * Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France) https://libertineevents.com/ [https://libertineevents.com/]  * Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder [https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder]  * Wanderlust Swingers Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/ [https://wanderlustswingers.com/]  * Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 [https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122]    Swinger Podcast, Social Sexual, How to Flirt at Swingers Parties, Consent in the Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Dress-Down Rules, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Wingwoman Strategies, Talk Blocking, Lifestyle Event Planning

Cap D Agde V2 + Recent Swingers Parties

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands. We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership. What You’ll Hear in This Episode * Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds * Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple) * Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana * Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play * SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out * Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees) * Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy * Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections) Quick Tips & Takeaways * Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits. * Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket  * Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night. * Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication. * Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities. Coming Up Next EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?). Useful Links from this Episode * Libertine Events [https://libertineevents.com/newsletter/] – U.S. & EU Takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale and France in 2026) * Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/cw/SwingingDownunder] – BTS photos, outfits & bonus audio * Wanderlust Swingers Website [https://wanderlustswingers.com/] * Join SDC [https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122] the worlds largest Lifestyle Swingers Dating Site   Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Babylone Pool Party, Glamour Beach Foam Party, European Swingers Parties, SDC World Party, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Podcast, Swingers Travel, Lifestyle Events Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Clubs Netherlands, Belgium Swingers Party Review, Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers