Jennifer's Mom's Near-Death Experience, ADHD Diagnosis & Cancer Battle
A Mother-Daughter Conversation Years in the Making
In this deeply personal episode, Jennifer sits down with her mom, Judy Grossman, for an honest conversation about family, forgiveness, resilience, and the stories that shape us. Together they reflect on childhood, generational trauma, mental health, motherhood, creativity, and the power of choosing joy—even in life's darkest moments.
Judy shares what it was like growing up as the daughter of Holocaust survivors, receiving an ADHD diagnosis later in life, navigating depression, and recently battling stage III colon cancer. She also opens up about her near-death experience at age ten, the lessons she's learned through suffering, and why she believes the best chapters of life can still be ahead.
Along the way, mother and daughter laugh, cry, revisit old wounds, and celebrate the bond they've built through honesty, compassion, and unconditional love.
In this episode, we discuss:
* Growing up as the daughter of Holocaust survivors
* Breaking generational patterns and parenting with intention
* Mental health, ADHD, and receiving a diagnosis later in life
* Why imperfect parents still raise resilient children
* Jennifer's childhood independence and limitless mindset
* Judy's battle with stage III colon cancer and finding hope during treatment
* Family, sisterhood, and the strength of unconditional love
* A remarkable near-death experience at age ten
* Why gratitude and joy can coexist with suffering
* Judy's upcoming book and the wisdom she's gathered over a lifetime
Timestamps00:00 – Introducing Judy Grossman: mother, grandmother, cancer warrior, and daughter of Holocaust survivors
02:28 – Growing up without choices and deciding to parent differently
04:28 – Raising three daughters by paying attention to who they naturally were
06:40 – Mental health struggles and looking back with compassion
09:04 – Receiving an ADHD diagnosis later in life
11:40 – Working at TV Guide and buying her first car at nineteen
13:23 – Judy reflects on Jennifer's childhood and fearless personality
16:48 – Why Jennifer never developed a limiting mindset
19:49 – Therapy at age ten and learning to let children be themselves
22:01 – Early signs of Jennifer's love for beauty, fashion, and entertaining
24:21 – Emotional reflections on their evolving relationship
25:22 – Judy's stage III colon cancer diagnosis and recovery journey
29:15 – "Today is just ten minutes out of a whole day"
31:11 – The unique roles each daughter played during treatment
34:14 – Finding gratitude even in the emergency room
35:15 – Why sisters become lifelong best friends
38:21 – Judy's near-death experience at age ten
41:32 – Returning with a sense of purpose
42:14 – How her book nearly went unpublished
45:05 – Dating again after divorce and the inspiration behind her book
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