What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

67 | Kristen Jenson: The Ability to Make a Good Choice

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/fan_mail/new] Parents raising kids today face challenges different from any other generation before. Technology is expanding and changing more rapidly than ever, and dangerous and harmful content hunts for young eyes.  Kristen Jenson has a mission: to help equip parents to prepare their kids. When kids know what is out there, how it is harmful, and what to do when they're exposed, they'll be safer, healthier, and more resilient. No one can fully prevent their kids from seeing porn or other harmful content, but they can make sure their kids know what to do when they see it. Kristen is the author of the book series Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, which just released a Girl's Guide edition. She is also the founder of Defend Young Minds, an organization providing training and resources to help parents and caregivers more effectively teach and prepare their kids. #kristenjenson #goodpicturesbadpictures #defendyoungminds #parents #parenting #pornography #connection #vulnerability #recovery #grace #gospel #transformation Kristen's Good Pictures, Bad Pictures books [https://www.amazon.com/s?k=kristen+jenson&dc&crid=35BSJNRYS1GFM&sprefix=kristen+jenson%2Caps%2C181&ref=a9_asc_1] (Amazon) Defend Young Minds [https://www.defendyoungminds.com/] website "My Kid Saw Porn...Now What?" [https://www.defendyoungminds.com/product/smart-plan-for-parents] SMART Plan guide Books [htps://defendyoungminds.com/books] (Defend Young Minds website) DYM on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/DefendYM/] DYM on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/defendyoungminds] DYM on X (formerly Twitter) [https://x.com/defendYM] DYM on LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/company/defend-young-minds] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/support] Awaken website [https://awakenrecovery.com/] Roots Retreat Men's Intensive [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/men/] Roots Retreat Women's Workshop [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/women/] Awaken Men & Women's support meeting info [https://awakenrecovery.com/meetings/] (including virtual)

PREVIEW | Kristen Jenson (coming May 26)

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/fan_mail/new] Pretty much all parents want to protect their kids from being exposed to porn. The sad reality is that parents can't always stop that exposure from happening. What if a better goal was to set our kids up with ways to identify what's going on, and a clear plan for what to do when that exposure happens? Kristen Jenson has been working for years to develop resources that help parents prepare their kids. The books in the Good Pictures, Bad Pictures series have sold over 350,000 copies and - along with many free resources at Defend Young Minds - helped parents set their kids up for success in avoiding the dangers of porn. Episode 67 | Kristen Jenson: The Ability to Make a Good Choice will be available Tuesday, May 26th! #kristenjenson #goodpicturesbadpictures #defendyoungminds #parents #parenting #pornography #connection #vulnerability #recovery #grace #gospel #transformation Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/support] Awaken website [https://awakenrecovery.com/] Roots Retreat Men's Intensive [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/men/] Roots Retreat Women's Workshop [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/women/] Awaken Men & Women's support meeting info [https://awakenrecovery.com/meetings/] (including virtual)

66 | Andy Gullahorn: Bowling League, Bonfire, or Badminton

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/fan_mail/new] There's a song lyric that reminds us of something important: "If beauty’s what you’re after, just look close to see... Knowing small things matter is really no small thing." That's from one of our friend Andy Gullahorn's songs. What a treat to have Andy back for another conversation. Talking with someone who's been a friend for a long time means you don't have to have much planned...the conversation will happen naturally. And this one defintely did. From friendship rituals to turning 50 to signing up for the Senior Olympics, Andy looks for meaning in everything. And the people who are around can sense there's something special about finding connection everywhere. Which, not coincidentally, actually gives us What We Really Want. That's not just the title of this show, it's also the title of one of Andy's newest songs, which he performs for us during the conversation! (around the 33:40 mark). Here's to you finding beauty and meaning, whether in bowling leagues, bonfires, badminton, or anything else around you. Thanks for the reminder, Andy. #andygullahorn #winningstreak #highfive #songwriting #connection #relationships #spirituality #vulnerability #recovery #grace #gospel #transformation Andy's website [https://www.andygullahorn.com/] Andy's Patreon page [https://www.patreon.com/c/andygullahorn] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/support] Awaken website [https://awakenrecovery.com/] Roots Retreat Men's Intensive [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/men/] Roots Retreat Women's Workshop [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/women/] Awaken Men & Women's support meeting info [https://awakenrecovery.com/meetings/] (including virtual)

A Little Extra Helping with Crystal Renaud Day (Bonus Episode)

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/fan_mail/new] Sometimes there's just too much good stuff to fit it all into an episode! This is what it felt like when Stacey and I - with our friend Stevi - talked with Crystal Renaud Day about her work with women who struggle with unwanted sexual behavior. One part of the conversation we didn't want to get lost was when Crystal talked about the work she does with teenage and pre-teen girls and their parents. What a refreshing thought...to address threats to safety and sexuality before they get out of control! For parents who desire to protect your kids while you prepare your kids to be on their own, this is a great part of the conversation you'll want to listen to. Be sure to also listen to our other episodes focusing on how you can protect and disciple your kids' innocence and sexuality. Please keep listening in...we'll be giving you new conversations every other Tuesday. Also, please support us by writing  a positive review and giving us 5 stars where you get your podcasts. #crystalrenaudday #crystalday #sherecovery #livingonpurpse #sexualwholeness #pornaddiction #pornrecovery #therapy #gospel #sexualaddiction #sexaddiction #women #awaken #awakenrecovery #awakenpodcast #whatwereallywant #wwrw #grace #connection #conversation SheRecovery [http://sherecovery.com/] website SheSummit [http://shevirtualsummit.com/] website - free virtual summit, with options to purchase lifetime access (use promo code AWAKEN for 10% off upgrades passes) Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/support] Awaken website [https://awakenrecovery.com/] Roots Retreat Men's Intensive [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/men/] Roots Retreat Women's Workshop [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/women/] Awaken Men & Women's support meeting info [https://awakenrecovery.com/meetings/] (including virtual)

65 | Crystal Renaud Day: Understanding the Drivers

"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)" [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/fan_mail/new] Ever hear the same lie we have? The lie that says, "Only men watch porn." What do you do if you're a female who struggles with something you're told is just a "guy's problem?" Growing up, Crystal Renaud Day hear that message. Although she was exposed to porn at age 10, and it eventually became an addiction, she could not find people talking about it, or offering help. Thankfully, she did something about it.  For almost 20 years, Crystal has been helping other women find a place to speak about, understand, and find healing & recovery from unwanted sexual struggles. She created an online recovery community, SheRecovery, that offers groups for women every day of the week. She is an author of several books, including an new book called What Drives Women to Porn, which explores the multiple drivers that contribute to unwanted sexual behavior; the book releases in September 2026. She also offers an annual online FREE summit for women called the SheSummit.  Crystal also founded an organization called Living on Purpose, which provides coaching and counseling to women and to parents who desire to raise their kids to be sexually healthy and aware. Crystal lives with her husband Tim in Kansas City. #crystalrenaudday #crystalday #sherecovery #livingonpurpse #sexualwholeness #pornaddiction #pornrecovery #therapy #gospel #sexualaddiction #sexaddiction #women #awaken #awakenrecovery #awakenpodcast #whatwereallywant #wwrw #grace #connection #conversation SheRecovery [http://sherecovery.com/] website SheSummit [http://shevirtualsummit.com] website - free virtual summit, with options to purchase lifetime access (use promo code AWAKEN for 10% off upgrades passes) Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2342685/support] Awaken website [https://awakenrecovery.com/] Roots Retreat Men's Intensive [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/men/] Roots Retreat Women's Workshop [https://awakenrecovery.com/intensives/women/] Awaken Men & Women's support meeting info [https://awakenrecovery.com/meetings/] (including virtual)