Your Identity Shifts with Milla Kuhto

From Control to Curiosity: Veenu Keller on Identity Shifts in Parenting and Business

What if the way you were raised is still running your life — your parenting, your business, your relationships? In this episode, I sit down with Veenu Keller, family coach, speaker, and creator of the Parent Child Whisper Method, to explore the identity shifts that happen when we stop controlling and start connecting. Veenu shares her journey from a suicidal latchkey kid in a Gen X immigrant household to one of the most sought-after family transformation coaches.  With nearly 30 years of experience and children ranging from age 3 to 27, she brings a rare perspective on what it actually means to parent with love instead of control. She explains parenting as guiding rather than dictating, giving children support without control, and using curiosity to build connection, including navigating AI as a tool rather than a replacement for parental presence. She discusses business growth through better questions, clearer positioning around the family as a unit, finding support roles, and implementing an awareness–accountability–action–acknowledgement framework. This conversation goes deep: childhood freedom, generational wounds, building a business without comparison, and why curiosity is the smallest change that creates the biggest shift at home. 00:00 Childhood Beliefs to Adult Life 02:55 Swings and Childhood Freedom 04:38 Letting Go of Control 07:54 Latchkey Kid Origins 10:15 Tony Robbins Turning Point 11:35 From Self-Critic to Curious 14:41 Radical Self Love in Families 17:43 Parenting Without Control 21:17 Releasing the Controller Identity 23:11 Business Growth Through Story 25:45 Stop Wearing Every Hat 26:33 Build a Bigger Vision 27:02 Coach vs Mentor 27:52 Questions Drive Growth 28:41 Alignment Framework 30:09 I Am the Standard 32:22 Implement Fast to Win 36:13 Parenting as Bootcamp 39:26 Don’t Let AI Parent 42:04 Curiosity Over Criticism 43:00 Lightning Round Wrap About Veenu: Veenu Keller is a family coach and speaker who helps parents and kids stop fighting and start understanding each other again. She’s the creator of the Parent-Child Whisperer™ Method, and her mission is simple: help families create a childhood kids don’t have to recover from. She also specializes in   In-Home TurnAround which is not a general coaching program. It is a focused, four-day private intervention designed for families who require immediate clarity, structure, and measurable change.  With nearly 30 years of experience, Veenu teaches practical tools that bring more calm, respect, and teamwork into the home—without yelling, threats, or power struggles. She’s trained through the Robbins-Madanes Institute and is also a Tony Robbins Trainer and former Head Training Coach for Joseph McClendon III. Today, she works with families—and trains coaches—around the world, helping homes feel safer, calmer, and more connected. Connect with Veenu: Website: https://veenuinspires.com/ [https://veenuinspires.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/veenu.keller [https://www.facebook.com/veenu.keller] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veenuinspires/ [https://www.instagram.com/veenuinspires/] Chatter Matters cards: https://veenuinspires.com/chatter-matters/ [https://veenuinspires.com/chatter-matters/] Parent-Child Whisperer™ Coaching Certification: https://veenuinspires.com/parent-child-whisperer/ [https://veenuinspires.com/parent-child-whisperer/]

Reinventing Success: Identity, Business Mastery, and AI with Lisa Lieberman-Wang

What happens when your identity is tied to income… and it disappears overnight? In this episode, Lisa Lieberman-Wang—business and marketing strategist, TEDx speaker, and #1 international best-selling author—shares how she went from being a self-made millionaire at 30 to starting over after the MCI/WorldCom collapse, and how that season forced a complete identity shift around worth, perfection, and purpose. With 35+ years of experience training and coaching leaders and entrepreneurs at scale, Lisa is the founder of the Mastery to Millions™ System, helping entrepreneurs, coaches, and experts scale to 7 figures through AI-powered strategy, sales psychology, and done-for-you systems. She’s been featured in major publications and on ABC, CBS, NBC, FOX, and The CW, reaching millions of viewers, and was recognized as a Top 25 Leading Women Entrepreneur. We also dig into the systems that prevent burnout, what coaches overcomplicate, why imposter syndrome shows up even in experts, and what AI can realistically do today to help you scale faster—without losing your voice. Plus: a lightning round on mentorship, marketing channels, and the question she wishes more people would ask. We explored: * How Lisa’s early “money = worth” programming shaped her identity * The WorldCom collapse: why concentrated wealth can disappear overnight * The decision that helped her rebuild * Relationship resilience during financial stress (and how roles saved the partnership) * The E-Myth lens: artist / manager-leader / entrepreneur — and why you need all three * Imposter syndrome in high performers * Tony Robbins turning point + the values shift: money, perfection, and imperfect action * Burnout prevention: delegate/automate/eliminate + weekly calendar review * AI reality check: using AI with intention, building agents, and leveraging a team * Why saying “no” to the wrong clients protects your business (and your nervous system) * Lisa’s books: How to Build a 7-Figure Coaching Business + AI Marketing Mastery Connect with Lisa: https://lisaliebermanwang.com/ [https://lisaliebermanwang.com/] https://www.facebook.com/llwang [https://www.facebook.com/llwang] Download her books: How to Build A 7-Figure Coaching Business https://www.howtobuilda7figurecoachingbusiness.com/7-figure-guide [https://www.howtobuilda7figurecoachingbusiness.com/7-figure-guide] AI Marketing Mastery https://aimarketingmasterybook.com/ [https://aimarketingmasterybook.com/] 00:00 Intro 02:32 Lisa's Early Aspirations and Career Path 05:22 Overcoming Financial Challenges 08:06 Building a Successful Business 15:13 The Role of Identity and Imposter Syndrome 18:20 Discovering Tony Robbins 28:10 Daily Routine and Time Management 29:06 Delegation and Letting Go 31:43 AI in Business 35:53 Building a Team 37:35 Secrets to Business Success 39:24 AI Marketing Mastery 46:39 Lightning Round Questions

Designing Personal Brand & The Invisibility Tax of 2026

In this first solo episode of Your Identity Shifts podcast, we unpack why your personal brand is no longer a “nice-to-have” and how staying low-key in 2026 has become the most expensive business decision you can make. You will learn what a personal brand really is (beyond logos and color palettes), why clarity now beats volume, and how to turn your “content chaos” into a wake that naturally attracts the right clients. Together, we dive into the identity clashes that make you freeze before posting, the deeper nervous-system work no branding course talks about, and a practical path to becoming truly referable online. By the end, you will see why your brand is the trail your courage leaves behind—and how to design it intentionally so that discovery calls, referrals, and DMs become a natural byproduct of who you are, not how hard you hustle. You’re invited to join Dare to Be Visible. It’s a 12‑week experience where we do both: the deep identity and visibility work that makes being seen feel safe, and the practical personal brand and content systems that make showing up feel repeatable and clear. ⁠https://www.identhica.com/dare⁠ [https://www.identhica.com/dare] Use the code PODCAST at checkout for 10% off Timestamps 00:00 – Why a personal brand is essential for business growth in 2026, not just “nice to have” 02:35 – Clear definition of personal branding and how it shows up in how people think and talk about you 04:49 – The four elements that shape your personal brand 07:10 – How market saturation and “sameness” are hurting solopreneurs 09:24 – The difference between focusing on sales versus brand 12:48 – Linking brand clarity + audience size = business results 14:33 – Why showing up online feels hard 16:43 – How low self‑permission limits your visibility 20:28 – Dare to Be Visible  Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iseelightinyou [https://www.instagram.com/iseelightinyou] Check out my work: https://www.millavisuals.com/ [https://www.millavisuals.com/]

One Presentation Away from a Breakthrough with Colin Boyd

What happens when the kid who can’t finish a school presentation becomes the mentor behind some of the biggest names in the personal development industry? In this episode of Your Identity Shifts, Colin Boyd shares how he moved from the belief “What is wrong with me?” to “When I step on stage, I freaking rock”, and how you can do the same. We dive into his new book, One Presentation Away: Become an Irresistible Speaker and Convert More Clients, identity shifts, and the power of one signature talk to change your business and your life. In this episode, we talk about: * Colin’s early terror of public speaking and the childhood moment that created the belief “There must be something wrong with me.”  * How he rewired his identity from “idiot” to “world-class trainer and speaker” using written identity statements.  * The decision to niche into “selling from stage” and why choosing one problem and one audience tripled his business.  * What a core premise is, why it’s the backbone of any high-converting signature talk, and how to start finding yours.  * The biggest mistake coaches and experts make when selling from the stage (over-teaching!) and what to do instead.  * Why Colin finally wrote his first book after nearly two decades in business, and how he actually got it done while moving countries.  * The real preparation behind a “natural” speaker, including the client who practiced his talk 100 times before speaking right before Tony Robbins.  * The simple truth: you don’t need five talks, you need one presentation, one offer… and reps. Timestamps 00:00 – Intro 02:10 – How a random workshop talk quietly changed everything 05:45 – The school presentation disaster that rewired his identity 09:20 – Rewriting “I’m broken” into “I’m a world-class trainer” 12:35 – The moment he stopped being a “generalist coach” 16:10 – Big life decisions, sunk costs, and starting over (again) 19:50 – Why he treats every stage like a conversation, not a performance 22:05 – What a “core premise” really is in a talk or business 25:30 – The subtle mistake that kills most sales from stage 28:40 – How he actually wrote the book (without being a fast writer) 31:15 – One recurring webinar, one offer, surprising revenue 35:20 – The identity shift he wants every expert to make about speaking Connect with Colin * 📘 Get the book + bonuses: www.onepresentationawaybook.com  * 📲 Send Colin a DM on Instagram and tell him you came from Your Identity Shifts: https://www.instagram.com/colinboyd/ * 🎙 Listen to Colin’s podcast: The Expert Edge Podcast – https://www.expertedgepodcast.com/ [https://www.expertedgepodcast.com/] *

Rebel for Good: Anneli Hansson on Validation, Visibility & Building a Personal Brand

Anneli Hansson doesn't look like a rebel. She'll tell you that herself. But rebellion has less to do with leather jackets and more to do with refusing to follow rules that don't make sense. And having the audacity to build a career on your own terms. Anneli is a brand strategist, ICF coach with 20+ years of experience shaping brands across agencies, client-side roles, and entrepreneurship. She worked with global names like Coca‑Cola, Polaroid, and Levi’s, as well as emerging food/food‑tech startups. In this conversation, we get into what it actually takes to build a personal brand rooted in who you are, not who you think you should be. Anneli shares her path from a tiny Swedish island of 400 people to cold-calling CEOs from a phone book, and how she learned that the thing you're most ashamed of might be your biggest strength. We also talk about the real difference between marketing and branding, when to build a personal brand versus a company brand, and how to use AI in your work without losing the human side that makes brands connect. If you've ever felt like an underdog, questioned your credentials, or struggled to own your voice, this one's for you. What we cover: * Why being a rebel doesn't require a leather jacket or being loud * The difference between marketing strategy and branding * Personal brand vs. company brand and when to build which * How Anneli turned "attention seeker" into a strength * Using AI for branding without losing the human element * Why introverts often make better facilitators than extroverts Timestamps:  00:00 Intro 01:37 What does it mean to be a rebel at 51? 03:17 Growing up on a Swedish island with 400 people 05:56 ADHD, school, and writing "Oslo" on every answer 11:57 Moving to Chicago at 18 14:20 Her first job (let's just say it predates Tinder) 16:26 Cold-calling her way into a marketing career 21:16 Finding confidence in sales but not in credentials 23:03 Marketing vs. branding, what's the actual difference? 26:47 Personal brands vs. company brands 30:22 Working with Chris Do and the Future Europe tour 32:03 The two-word brand: Attention Broke-her 38:04 Building a personal brand in the AI era 44:24 How Anneli uses AI and where she draws the line 47:18 Brand Rebels for Good, the community Connect with Anneli Hansson: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theannelihansson/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theannelihansson/ Website: https://www.annelihansson.com/ Brand Rebels for Good: https://www.annelihansson.com/brand-rebels-for-good