FEMINIST PILLOW TALK

A FEMINIST INTERNET

Ever logged onto the internet and instantly remembered why feminists deserve hazard pay? From drive-by misogyny to anonymous bravery (the kind that only exists behind a username like RealAlpha9021), the online world can feel less like a public square and more like a digital battlefield women never asked to fight in. In this episode, we unpack the violence that feminists, organizers, and women face online every day, the harassment, the silencing, the threats, the constant emotional labor of simply existing with an opinion. So here are some questions: - How do we build an internet that doesn't try to destroy women up? - What does a safe internet actually look like? - And how do we move toward ending gender-based violence both on-screen and off?

Feminist Pillow Talk

Podcast Intro

DIGITAL SAFETY TIPS FOR ORGANIZERS

Have you ever felt completely visible online yet somehow invisible when it comes to your rights? Like you know your constitution, you can quote the Bill of Rights on no sleep… and still find yourself facing violations, intimidation, or the inside of a police van? In this episode, Ann and Chichi get real; drawing from their own experiences with arrests and rights being treated as an option. With equal parts wit and wisdom, they share practical digital safety tips for activists, organizers, and anyone doing feminist or human rights work. It’s a survival guide for staying loud, staying safe, and staying unbroken in a world that tries very hard to silence you.

FEMINIST STANDARDS (DATING AND FRIENDSHIPS)

What happens when feminism updates your standards like a software upgrade you never asked for but absolutely needed?” In this episode, Ann and Tendai settle in for some well needed feminist pillow talk, the kind where your favorite wine is in hand, your guard is down, and the truth comes out unfiltered. They unpack how feminism quietly raises the bar on everything: friendships, relationships, situationships, and those almost-friendships you try to pretend don’t count. Suddenly you want more. You expect more. You give more but only where it’s deserved. It’s a conversation about choosing friends with the same intention you choose partners, honoring your friendships the way people tell you to honor romance, and refusing to rank one over the other because you contain multitudes — not hierarchies. Funny, sassy, and painfully honest… this is the episode that reminds you: feminist standards aren’t “too much.” They’re just right.

FEMINIST GUIDE TO DATING ONLINE (SAFETY TIPS)

Welcome to online dating: the land of vibes, red flags, and suspiciously blurry selfies. This episode spills the truth the apps won’t: the red flags that somehow never make it into the terms and conditions, the digital nonsense you should sprint from, and the simple ways to protect yourself while you swipe, chat, block, and keep it moving. A crash course in avoiding creeps, dodging chaos, and surviving the online dating multiverse with your dignity and your data intact.