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My Boss Told Me I'd Never Be Good Enough. Then I Built This. | Ken Sher

At 52, Ken Sher was told by his boss: "You will never live up to my expectations." A few months later, he was out of a job, with two kids in college and one in high school. What he did next built him a thriving executive coaching business — and a leadership framework now used by CEOs across the country. In this episode of MyFinJourney, Mustafa Ladha sits down with Ken Sher — Executive Coach, Keynote Speaker, and creator of the TRUST Success Model. After 25 years at Johnson & Johnson and Bristol-Myers Squibb, Ken now coaches everyone from new managers to Fortune 500 CEOs on what most leaders get wrong about trust, communication, and team performance. This conversation is brutally honest about job loss, career transitions, building wealth through multiple income streams, and why the smartest leaders in the world all have one thing in common: a coach. Time Stamps: 00:00 — Introduction 01:06 — "You will never live up to my expectations" — Ken's career-defining moment 03:05 — What coaching actually is (it's not what you think) 06:27 — Ken's TRUST framework explained 09:00 — Why vulnerability is your unfair advantage as a leader 17:15 — The painful lesson Ken's kids learned when he got laid off 20:33 — Why every employee needs multiple streams of income 25:46 — How to write a resume that gets you hired (the STARS method) 29:08 — The #1 mistake busy executives make every single day 33:30 — When to recommend therapy to your top performers What you'll learn: → The TRUST framework: Transparency, Results, Understanding, Simplicity, Teams → Why showing vulnerability ACTUALLY makes you a stronger leader → The 3 things every executive must do to grow (most ignore them) → How to position yourself for ANY job using the STARS method → Why "time to think" is the most overlooked CEO habit → The painful financial wake-up call that taught Ken's family more than any lecture → Why authentic ≠ weak — and how to use both as leverage Whether you're a manager, executive, entrepreneur, or someone navigating a career transition — this episode gives you the practical blueprint nobody teaches in MBA school. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔗 Connect with Ken Sher: Email: ken@shercoaching.com Website: ShercCoaching.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kensher Free TRUST Model Guide: Email Ken directly to receive it ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ Subscribe to MyFinJourney → https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/5UmpEcn 🔗 FOLLOW Mustafa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mustafa-ladha/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Intro — leadership, trust & building real wealth 01:06 ⭐ "You will never live up to my expectations" 02:03 From J&J to building a coaching empire 03:05 What coaching actually is (most people get it wrong) 04:24 When a coach becomes destructive 06:27 The TRUST framework explained 09:00 Why leaders refuse to ask for help (and what it costs) 11:05 The product launch story — vulnerability that paid off 13:03 When transparency is a weapon vs. a weakness 14:27 The 3 things every top executive does daily 17:15 ⭐ Getting laid off at 52 — the brutal teaching moment 20:05 Why your "stable" job is actually not stable 20:33 Multiple streams of income — the new survival skill 21:39 Why traditional education isn't enough anymore 23:09 The hidden ways top performers actually learn 24:03 How to stay relevant when AI takes your job 25:46 The STARS method — resume writing that gets you hired 28:24 The "so what" trick that separates winners 29:08 ⭐ Why busy executives never grow 30:31 The morning ritual every CEO swears by 31:35 How to actually use "thinking time" (it's structured) 33:30 When to send your top performer to therapy 36:07 Authentic vs. vulnerable — the leadership distinction 37:46 How to connect with Ken Sher 38:44 Closing thoughts

You'll Never Build Wealth Until You Fix This | Christopher Salem on Mindset, Emotional Intelligence & Wealth

Most people chase strategy, tactics, and shiny objects — but the real reason they never build wealth is something deeper. In this episode of MyFinJourney, Mustafa Ladha sits down with Christopher Salem — Business Acceleration Strategist, Executive Mentor, and Founder of Sustainable Success Coaching & Consulting. Chris has been featured on ABC, CBS, FOX, and NBC, and helps leaders and entrepreneurs grow revenue by mastering the 3 things most businesses underestimate: emotional intelligence, communication, and value proposition clarity. This conversation goes places most business podcasts won't. Chris opens up about 12 years of hidden addiction, growing up in a dysfunctional home, and the moment his dying father said something that rewired his entire identity — and ultimately built his wealth and his life. What you'll learn: → Why your childhood is silently capping your bank account → The difference between "being" and "becoming" — and why most people skip step one → The shiny object problem destroying entrepreneurs' wealth → Why "I'll be happy when I make X dollars" is a trap → How to take calculated risks instead of playing it safe → The 4 pillars of success: Foundation, Preparation, Execution, Measurement → Why transparency is a strength, not a weakness, in leadership → "Give without expectation, receive without resistance" — the rule that changed everything Whether you're an entrepreneur, executive, sales professional, or someone trying to break a cycle inherited from your family — this episode gives you the inner work blueprint nobody talks about. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Connect with Christopher Salem: linkedin.com/in/christophersalem [https://www.linkedin.com/in/christophersalem/] Subscribe to MyFinJourney → https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney [https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney] Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/5UmpEcn 🔗 FOLLOW Mustafa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mustafa-ladha/ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction — emotional intelligence, leadership & wealth 01:25 Chris's journey through the school of hard knocks 03:01 Growing up in a dysfunctional home & seeking validation 04:30 12 years of hidden addiction — the recovering passive-aggressive 06:00 The life-changing moment — Chris's father's final words 08:00 The transformation — 12-step recovery, meditation & rewiring the mind 09:18 Why share your weakness as a leader? The case for vulnerability 10:30 How to know your audience — logic vs. emotion-driven listeners 12:12 Why most business books lie to you about the journey 15:00 Without challenges there are no opportunities — the real success path 16:49 Before vs. after 31 — Chris's financial mindset shift 18:30 The shiny object problem destroying entrepreneurs' wealth 20:00 Expectations vs. intentions — why fear lives in past and future 20:57 Diversification vs. focus — Chris's reconciled view 22:30 How to take calculated risks (instead of playing it safe) 24:15 The over-saver problem — why delayed gratification can hurt you 25:30 The transition from saving to investing — logic + emotion 26:30 The 8 pillars of wellness — and why money is just one 28:00 Why high-S personalities struggle with wealth-building 29:08 Speak to yourself in certainty — the universe responds in frequency 30:14 How to know what to work on — start with self-awareness 31:30 Self-limiting beliefs from childhood that cap your income 32:30 How to rewire your thinking — meditation, journaling & routine 34:00 The culture trap — breaking patterns your family passed to you 35:23 The American hustle — why slowing down builds more wealth 35:50 The 4 pillars: Foundation, Preparation, Execution, Measurement 37:00 How Zappos built a billion-dollar culture (and what to copy) 38:00 Why most people look outside themselves for wealth (and lose) 39:30 Give without expectation. Receive without resistance. 40:27 How to connect with Christopher Salem 41:15 Closing — clarity, communication & doing the inner work 💡 If this episode made you stop and reflect on the inner work behind real wealth — share it with someone who needs the reminder. 💬 Drop a comment: What's ONE self-limiting belief from your childhood that's still affecting your money or career today? ⭐ Enjoying MyFinJourney? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts — it takes 30 seconds and helps more people find us.

How to Travel the World While Building Wealth | Doug Weissman on Storytelling, Freedom & Real Living

What if your "useless" skill is actually the one that pays your dreams? In this episode of MyFinJourney, Mustafa Ladha sits down with Doug Weissman, Senior Travel Writer & Content Marketer at Zicasso, who turned a "starving artist" path into a global career writing about travel, building luxury itineraries, and crafting stories that drive trust and conversion for one of the most respected names in personalized travel. Doug has traveled to over 30 countries, written 9 novels, lived in Italy, road-tripped through Scotland, gotten turned away at the Egyptian border, and built a life where storytelling, freedom, and family all live together. This conversation is for anyone who's ever felt their passion isn't a "real career" — and wants proof that it can be. What you'll learn: → Why storytelling is the most underrated wealth-building skill of the next decade → How Doug stacked 5 jobs during COVID while everyone else panicked → The "passports over classrooms" parenting trend changing how families travel → Why ChatGPT can't replace a travel specialist — and what that teaches us about value → How the wealthy actually plan trips (it's NOT what you see on Instagram) → The Saudi Prince vs. Bill Gates yacht story — and what it reveals about emotional buying → Why personal branding on LinkedIn still wins in 2026 → How "not knowing what you don't know" is silently capping your income Whether you're an entrepreneur, content creator, real estate investor, or someone designing a life with more freedom — this episode connects travel, storytelling, money, and identity in a way you've never heard before. Connect with Doug Weissman: linkedin.com/in/douglas-weissman Subscribe to MyFinJourney → https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/5UmpEcn 🔗 FOLLOW Mustafa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mustafa-ladha/ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction — storytelling, travel, and freedom 01:04 What Doug's life actually looks like (it's more boring than you think) 02:00 Catching the travel bug — study abroad in Italy 02:50 Graduating into a recession & traveling the world instead 03:45 Falling into travel writing through a Craigslist ad 04:46 $2,500 for a year in Florence — the financial hack most students miss 06:04 13 countries in one year — Doug's most underrated destination 07:30 Why Slovenia changed his perspective on travel forever 10:46 What did your conservative parents say? — Doug's real answer 13:14 The shift in global perception of American travelers 15:42 Driving stick shift in the UK — a navigator's nightmare 19:30 Why "storytelling" feels like a fake job (until it isn't) 20:32 How Doug built a real career out of "starving artist" advice 22:30 Talent stacking — why one skill is never enough 24:23 Why "not knowing what you don't know" is silently costing you years 26:28 The 4-Hour Workweek philosophy & "the new rich" lifestyle 28:43 Family roots vs. global travel — finding the balance 30:30 "Passports over classrooms" — the new parenting trend 32:04 Travel hacking, points, and why most people leave money on the table 34:00 How Doug got a $15K Egypt trip for $3K through work perks 36:50 The hidden micro-transactions silently draining Americans' wealth 39:40 Saudi Prince vs. Bill Gates — emotional buying at its peak 42:00 Why ChatGPT can't plan your trip — the LLM trap exposed 45:24 The hidden hotel under construction & why local experts win 47:50 Real story — how a luxury kids center saved Doug's Portugal trip 50:27 The wealth lesson hiding inside good travel planning 52:16 Where to connect with Doug 52:50 Why Doug bet on LinkedIn in 2020 — and is still winning 54:30 Stacking 5 jobs during COVID — habit stacking in real life 55:30 Why most LinkedIn posts in 2026 are AI slop (and how to stand out) 56:28 Closing — clarity, storytelling, and building a life worth telling 💡 If this episode opened your mind to the kind of life that's actually possible — share it with one person who needs the reminder. 💬 Drop a comment: Where in the world would YOU travel if money and time weren't an issue? ⭐ Enjoying MyFinJourney? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts — it takes 30 seconds and helps more people find us.

The Hidden Cost Destroying Your Business (Nobody Talks About) | Devon Bruce on Communication Debt

Most businesses don't fail because of bad strategy. They fail because of bad communication — and most leaders don't even see it happening. In this episode of MyFinJourney, Mustafa Ladha sits down with Devon Bruce, Founder and CEO of the English Communication Academy, who coined the term "communication debt" — the hidden build-up of misalignment, unclear messages, and quiet assumptions that costs organizations billions every year. Devon has worked with global healthcare teams, medical institutions, and even collaborated with Stanford Engineering on AI in healthcare education. But what's powerful about this conversation is how she translates high-stakes healthcare communication into lessons every entrepreneur, executive, couple, and parent can apply immediately. What you'll learn: → What "communication debt" is and why it silently kills businesses → The real reason people nod in meetings and then email 3 days later asking for clarification → Why vague phrases like "ASAP" are the #1 source of workplace chaos → How communication debt shows up in marriages, parenting, and money conversations → The simple 1-sentence fix every leader should use at the end of every meeting → Why single moms, immigrants, and outsiders often build better businesses → How Devon grew to 20,000 LinkedIn followers (senior execs+) all organic → Why the "traditional rule book" is broken — and what to do instead If you're an entrepreneur, executive, or investor trying to scale — this is the leverage point you didn't know you were missing. Connect with Devon Bruce: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/devonbruce-eca/ Website: englishcommunicationacademy.com [https://www.linkedin.com/safety/go/?url=www%2Eenglishcommunicationacademy%2Ecom&urlhash=CXA1&isSdui=true] Subscribe to MyFinJourney → https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/5UmpEcn 🔗 FOLLOW Mustafa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mustafa-ladha/ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction — communication as infrastructure, not soft skill 01:23 Devon's journey — from ESL teacher to communication debt expert 03:10 How Devon discovered native speakers struggle too 04:04 What is "communication debt" and why it costs billions 05:15 Real example — how a leadership meeting quietly goes wrong 06:44 Is it a communication gap or a company culture problem? 08:14 Communication is a two-way relationship, not a monologue 09:07 Why healthcare matters — when communication is life or death 09:50 The house analogy — cracks in communication build over time 10:30 Communication blind spots for executives & investors 11:14 Does this apply to couples, parents, and money conversations? 12:33 How to actually stop communication debt from accumulating 13:45 The husband-wife debt example and how to reframe blame 14:55 Why most people don't communicate clearly — ownership & ego 15:55 Clarity vs. micromanagement — where's the line? 17:00 Why "ASAP" is the most dangerous word in business 18:21 The small fix that removes ambiguity instantly 19:44 Presentation mistakes — native vs. non-native speakers 21:00 The power of the pause — why silence is your secret weapon 21:53 Why smart people overload slides and lose the audience 23:25 How Devon gets executive buy-in — "show me your receipts" 25:11 Authenticity — how Devon built social proof from scratch 28:21 From people-pleaser to authentic — the hard inner work 29:41 Why the traditional business rule book is broken 31:04 Being a single mom and building a business your way 32:30 20 years of growth in 3 years — throwing out the playbook 33:10 20,000 LinkedIn followers, all organic — how she did it 33:56 Devon's real definition of success — family over numbers 35:17 How to connect with Devon Bruce 35:49 Closing — communication as compounding leverage 💡 If this episode gave you a new way to think about how you lead, talk, or pitch — share it with one person who needs to hear it. 💬 Drop a comment: Where do YOU see communication debt piling up — at work, at home, or in your relationships? ⭐ Enjoying MyFinJourney? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts — it takes 30 seconds and helps more people find us.

Career Growth Secrets & Mentorship Tips from Biotech C-suite Advisor Rohit Sood

Looking for the best career advice for 2026? In this powerful episode of MyFin Journey, host Mustafa Ladha interviews Rohit Sood — founder of Venture Life Sciences, former Sorcero executive, strategy consultant, and Rutgers Business School professor who has helped scale 50+ life sciences brands with 6 successful US and European product launches. Rohit shares the exact career growth strategies, mentorship frameworks, personal finance principles, and networking tactics that took him from a struggling immigrant student earning $24,000 in New York City to building a financially independent life on his own terms. Whether you're a college student looking for career advice, a young professional searching for mentorship, an MBA grad planning your next move, a freelancer building your personal brand, or an executive thinking about your second act — this interview is packed with actionable career tips, money lessons, and leadership insights you can apply immediately. 🎯 WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE ✅ How to build a successful career without making money your #1 motivator ✅ The 4 questions every high performer asks before accepting any job ✅ How to find a great mentor (and why most bosses are terrible mentors) ✅ Career change advice: how to pivot industries successfully ✅ The biggest mistake young professionals make in job interviews ✅ How to build wealth through real estate investing as a side income ✅ Why you need a financial advisor — even if you're "good with money" ✅ AI in business 2026: what every professional needs to know ✅ LinkedIn strategy: how to grow your network and personal brand ✅ Networking tips for students and recent graduates ✅ How to ask for what you want in your career (the #1 underrated skill) ⏱️ EPISODE CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction — Meet Rohit Sood, Biotech Leader & Strategy Consultant 01:25 Rohit's career journey: from computer science to Wall Street to biotech 06:20 How a struggling student became a top MBA performer 08:21 The mindset shift that unlocked his love for learning 10:21 The 4 questions Rohit asks before taking any new role 11:00 Why he never made career decisions based on money 13:16 Theory vs application: what real learning actually looks like 15:30 Teaching MBA students at Rutgers Business School 17:02 How maturity transforms your approach to education and work 18:30 Career advice for college students and recent graduates 20:25 The soft skills nobody teaches young professionals 22:04 How to find a good mentor (and spot a bad one) 25:25 Personal finance: when to hire a professional financial advisor 27:24 The $18,000 day trading mistake that changed everything 28:30 Real estate investing: how Rohit built his property portfolio 30:24 Why Rohit posts on LinkedIn every day 33:10 The job interview hack that actually lands offers 35:49 Why human skills will never be replaced by AI in 2026 37:20 Networking advice for the AI era 39:18 The #1 career skill nobody teaches: how to ask for what you want 40:02 Closing thoughts and how to connect with Rohit 🎤 ABOUT THE GUEST Rohit Sood is the founder of Venture Life Sciences, a strategic advisory firm helping startups and small companies navigate go-to-market strategy, commercial readiness, digital transformation, and AI readiness. With over 25 years of experience spanning Wall Street, global strategy consulting, biotech commercialization, and AI implementation, Rohit has guided 50+ brands to successful commercialization including 6 major US and European product launches. He currently teaches at Rutgers Business School, is developing a medical affairs course at Ole Miss School of Pharmacy, and is pursuing his doctorate in oncology operating models at Swiss School of Business Management. 🔗 Connect with Rohit on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rsood/ 🎙️ ABOUT MYFINJOURNEY MyFin Journey is a podcast hosted by Mustafa Ladha featuring deep conversations with operators, founders, executives, and industry leaders about career growth, personal finance, entrepreneurship, leadership, and building wealth. New episodes drop weekly. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more interviews: https://www.youtube.com/@myfinjourney 👍 LIKE this video if you got value from it 💬 COMMENT your biggest takeaway below 📤 SHARE with someone who needs to hear this 🔗 FOLLOW Mustafa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mustafa-ladha/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5UmpEcn Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast