Sex With Emily

Is Your Sex Life “Normal”?

In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m answering your real, unfiltered questions, covering everything from casual sex and whether it’s actually right for you, to performance anxiety and what really happens to your sex life after the honeymoon phase ends. We get into how to talk to your partner about things like blood flow and stress playing a bigger role in arousal than you think, and how to reignite connection when sex starts to feel routine or less frequent. I also break down why scheduling sex isn’t boring- It’s actually one of the most powerful tools for long-term intimacy! Also,  solo pleasure can support (not replace) your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered “is this normal?” when it comes to your sex life… this episode is for you. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.  CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text  Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe  Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!    ============================= Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the LIVE 01:10 Let’s Talk Sex Without the Awkwardness 02:32 When Casual Sex Just Doesn’t Feel Right 03:06 Caller Question: Feeling Weird or Guilty About Viagra 05:04 How to Bring It Up With Your Partner 06:13 The Pressure Guys Feel in Bed 07:25 Expectations & Real Talk 08:01 Blood Flow & What’s Actually Going On 09:18 New Fixes: Shockwave Therapy 10:28 Caller Question: Why Sex Slows Down 11:30 The Honeymoon Phase Is Over… Now What? 12:48 Keeping Things Fun & Exciting 14:02 Finding the Best Time for Sex 31:13 Why You Gotta Prioritize Your Sex Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Missionary Isn’t Boring, You’re Just Doing It Wrong

I know what you're thinking. Missionary? Really? But hear me out,  because I genuinely believe missionary might be the most underrated position in existence, and the reason most people are bored by it has nothing to do with the position itself. It has everything to do with what they're not doing in it. In this episode, I'm breaking down every missionary myth, sharing the techniques that actually work for clitoral stimulation during penetration, and answering your listener's questions on everything from G-spot orgasms to asking your partner to bend you over the kitchen table. In this episode, you'll learn:  • Why the porn version of penetrative sex works for only about 30% of vulva owners and what the rest of us actually need to get there, including the CAT technique that makes missionary the best position for clitoral stimulation  • How to tell your partner you want them to dominate you, talk dirty, and bring more intensity to sex without making them feel like they've been doing it wrong this whole time  • Why incorporating a vibrator into partnered sex is one of the best things you can do for your sex life, and how to ask for it even if you're a people pleaser who's spent years putting everyone else's comfort before your own pleasure This Episode is sponsored by... Check out Magic Wand at shop.sexwithemily.com/magicwand [shop.sexwithemily.com/magicwand] More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/]Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching [http://sexwithemily.com/coaching] to apply!  • Sex With Emily Guides: [https://sexwithemily.com/guides/] Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure] • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website [https://sexwithemily.com/] • Let’s get social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/] | X [https://twitter.com/sexwithemily] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily] | TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily] | Threads [https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily] | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial] • Let’s text: Sign up here [https://sexwithemily.com/text] • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here [https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe] for sex tips on the regular. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:03 - What's Actually Great About Missionary (That Most People Miss) 5:26 - Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Is Boring 8:21 - The CAT Technique: Best Missionary Position for Clitoral Stimulation 9:29 - Listener Question: Mental Block Around Trying New Positions 13:15 - Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Can't Be Kinky 13:28 - Listener Question: How to Ask Your Partner to Be More Dominant 18:27 - Dispelling the Myth That Vulva Owners Can't Orgasm in Missionary 19:02 - Listener Question: Clitoral vs. Penetrative Orgasms & the G-Spot Explained 23:32 - Listener Question: How to Use a Vibrator During Missionary Without the Bulk 26:06 - A Note to People Pleasers: Your Pleasure Matters Too Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Why You’re Not Having the Sex You Want (& How to Fix It)

In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I dive into your real-time questions about sex, dating, desire, and connection… breaking down what might actually be blocking you from the intimacy and pleasure you want. From why it can feel harder to approach people or build attraction, to how stress, overthinking, and disconnection from your body and partner impact desire, I unpack the hidden patterns shaping your sex life. We explore everything from casual sex after breakups to how couples can reignite the spark, approach intimacy more intentionally, and create more ease, confidence, and fun in both sex and modern dating.  ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.  CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text  Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe  Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!  Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the LIVE 01:16 How to Call/Text Your Questions 01:49 Valentine’s Day & 21 Years of Podcasting 02:36 Why Couples Love Listening Together 04:33 Desire vs. Arousal Explained 05:21 Can You Coregasm at the Gym?  06:59 Blood Flow & Body Responses 07:53 Is This Normal?   09:02 What Some Women Enjoy Watching  10:54 Vulnerability in Men & Relationships 12:38 What is Compersion? 14:10 How to Approach Someone at the Gym 18:45 How to Bring Back the Spark in Relationships 21:25 Yes/No/Maybe List (Game-Changer Tool) 23:48 Real-Life Love Stories (Gym & Neighbors) 24:16 Keep Dating Your Partner 27:09 Slow Cooker vs. Frying Pan 28:52 Final Thoughts & Where to Find More Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

The Sex Conversations You're Too Afraid to Have

I've said it a thousand times and I'll say it again, the number one thing standing between you and the sex life you actually want is probably one conversation you haven't had yet. Not a new position. Not a new toy. A conversation. And I know that sounds simple, but if it were easy, you wouldn't be talking yourself out of it every single time. Today, I'm taking live listener calls on some of the most awkward, most avoided, most necessary conversations in sex and relationships, and giving you the exact words to have them. In this episode, you'll learn:  • What to do when everything in your relationship is great except the sex — and how to bring it up without making your partner feel like the last nine months were a waste  • How to give feedback about a smell, a skill, or a habit that's getting in the way of your pleasure — without shame, without cruelty, and without killing the mood  • Why if you're freezing up every time you want to initiate, the problem probably isn't your partner's response — it's the story you're telling yourself before you even open your mouth This episode is sponsored by... Try Promescent Delay Spray today and get 15% off your first order. Just go to www.promescent.com/swe [https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/be159dc8-3a6e-11ee-9747-9b3d81a5f497/podcasts/39bf6c96-a9b0-11ee-b1ce-e7d53bc6d37e/episodes/www.promescent.com/swe] More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/]Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching [http://sexwithemily.com/coaching] to apply!  • Sex With Emily Guides: [https://sexwithemily.com/guides/] Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure] • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website [https://sexwithemily.com/] • Let’s get social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/] | X [https://twitter.com/sexwithemily] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily] | TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily] | Threads [https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily] | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial] • Let’s text: Sign up here [https://sexwithemily.com/text] • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here [https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe] for sex tips on the regular. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:44 - Caller #1: Sex Is Lackluster After 9 Months — Is It a Dealbreaker? 11:27 - How to Tell Someone They're Bad at Hand Jobs 13:06 - Caller #2: She's Monogamous, He Wants Non-Monogamy 18:55 - Dr. Emily on Ethical Non-Monogamy & Why Timing Matters 19:58 - Caller #3: Should He Tell His Culinary School Crush He Has Feelings? 27:25 - Caller #4: Hemorrhoid Surgery, Skin Tags & Talking About It With Partners 33:39 - Anonymous Question: She Smells — How Do You Bring It Up? 36:06 - Caller #5: She Wants Sex But Freezes Up Before Initiating 42:03 - Dr. Emily's Final Word: If No One Initiates, There's Zero Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Can Making Sound Unlock Better Pleasure? W/ Taryn Toomey

What if the key to better sex wasn't about technique — it was about learning to feel your own body again? Taryn Toomey, founder of The Class, joined me live at Eudaimonia to break down how 13 years of somatic movement quietly rewired her relationship with pleasure, sound, and receiving — and why the two aren't as different as you'd think. From faking orgasms in her 20s to purring her way through her "delicious" 40s, Taryn gets raw about her two-year stretch of only receiving oral sex, falling deeply in love after divorce, and what it really means to let someone in — body and soul. Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube [https://youtu.be/74QV_yQJvE0]! In this episode, you'll learn:  • Why the sounds you make in a workout and the sounds you make in bed come from the exact same place — and how unlocking one unlocks the other • How Taryn's two-year "oral sex only" era taught her more about receiving, boundaries, and her own body than any relationship ever did • The one breathwork tool that works both in The Class and during sex to get out of your head and back into your body — instantly And if you want to dive deeper into Taryn’s work after listening, we’ve got a little gift for you. Go to https://browse.theclass.digital/ [https://browse.theclass.digital/] and get 20% off her Digital Platform with the promo code SEXWITHEMILY. Eudemonia: • Website [https://eudemonia.net/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=emily-morse-podcast&utm_campaign=halle-berry] Find Taryn: • https://www.instagram.com/taryntoomey/ [https://www.instagram.com/taryntoomey/] • https://www.taryntoomey.com/ [https://www.taryntoomey.com/] • https://www.theclass.com/ [https://www.theclass.com/] • https://www.instagram.com/theclass/ [https://www.instagram.com/theclass/] More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/]Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching [http://sexwithemily.com/coaching] to apply!  • Sex With Emily Guides: [https://sexwithemily.com/guides/] Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure [https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure] • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website [https://sexwithemily.com/] • Let’s get social: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/] | X [https://twitter.com/sexwithemily] | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily] | TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily] | Threads [https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily] | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial] • Let’s text: Sign up here [https://sexwithemily.com/text] • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here [https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe] for sex tips on the regular. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - Meet Taran Tumi: Founder of The Class & the Embodiment Movement 1:37 - Why It's So Hard to Actually Be in Your Body 4:35 - The Connection Between Voice, Sound & Pleasure 7:41 - Dating After Divorce: What Intimacy Looks Like Now 9:00 - Why Men Struggle with Sound in the Class (And in the Bedroom) 13:28 - How the Class Actually Works: The Method Behind the Movement 17:06 - The Class Gave Her a Great Vagina (And Why That Makes Sense) 18:07 - Heartbreak, Beautiful Love & Learning to Receive 21:30 - The Orgasm Gap & Why Women Can't Receive Oral Sex 24:42 - Breathing, Co-Regulation & Getting Out of Your Head During Sex 28:51 - The Energy You Take Into Your Body: Sex, Attachment & Staying Mindful 32:09 - What Happens When You Stop Performing and Start Feeling 34:01 - Feeling More at Home in Your Body at 47 Than at 20 39:03 - Decades of Sex in a Few Words: Drunk, Formulaic, Delicious 43:45 - Dating as a Single Mom & What Her Daughters Reflect Back 47:01 - One Truth About Pleasure & One Practice to Start Tonight 48:35 - Audience Q&A: How to Ask for Oral Sex, Talking to Daughters About Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]