Networking Do's And Don'ts: What Actually Works And What To Avoid
In this episode, Greg sits down with Kristin Geer, Director of Operations for BNI Arizona, to break down what actually works in networking — and what doesn’t.
Kristin shares practical do’s and don’ts, why building real relationships beats spraying business cards, how to overcome fear of public speaking, the power of follow-up, and why “Givers Gain” is more than just a slogan.
Whether you’re brand new to networking or have been doing it for years, this conversation will help you stop wasting time and start building connections that actually grow your business.
Key Takeaways:
- Show up consistently — Visibility is the foundation. You can’t win if you’re not there.
- Build relationships, don’t hunt for sales — Focus on trust and giving value first. Referrals follow naturally.
- Be present — Put the phone away, make eye contact, and actually listen. People notice when you’re not.
- Follow up is where the magic happens — The fortune is in the follow-up. One conversation isn’t enough.
- Givers Gain works — The more you help others, the more business comes back to you.
Chapters with Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro & Welcome to Kristin Geer from BNI
01:29 – What is BNI? How it works and “Givers Gain” philosophy
03:48 – The hidden benefit: Real friendships & support for business owners
06:00 – Kristin’s journey: From massage therapist to BNI Director of Operations
10:25 – Why showing up consistently is non-negotiable
12:26 – Go in with the intention to build relationships, not close sales
18:16 – The fortune is in the follow-up
24:48 – Networking Do’s: Be present, be professional, be prepared
35:47 – Networking Don’ts: Spraying business cards, being transactional, checking yourphone
43:11 – How to remember names and make strong first impressions
51:03 – Qualities to look for in great referral partners
55:27 – Overcoming fear of public speaking and networking anxiety
1:06:38 – Advice for new networkers: Act like a host & get involved
1:13:14 – How to find and choose the right networking group
1:17:43 – Fun closing questions + Final thoughts
Host is Greg Forzani.
Our guest is Kristin Geer, Director Of Operation, BNI Arizona
www.BNI.com
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