Living in and enjoying the life you’ve built isn’t passive
When is it time to stop building your life, your identity, your work - and start living it? And what does it look like when you stop optimizing, and start living, enjoying, and being in it?
A recent roadtrip (including the complete rescheduling of my bachelorette party) showed me what it takes to step into the life you’ve so intentionally created - and live in it embodied, easeful, and joyful.
This episode is an exploration of:
* Why ease often feels uncomfortable and scary at first - especially for the parts of us that want to stay in control
* Why you get stuck in building, thinking, and striving and how to shift into enjoyment, ease, and living it
* My intentions for my 2 week roadtrip through California vs. what actually happened (family visits, solo time, bachelorette, and integration included)
* Why being witnessed and receiving love from your people is vulnerable and what that discomfort is inviting you to lean into around belonging, connection, and letting yourself be known
* How rescheduling the bachelorette party forced me to get comfortable with uncertainty in relationships
* What the energetics of self-sufficiency say about shifting into a more easeful season
This ones for the builders, the thinkers, the intentional planners that are ready to put that energy down - and fully embrace living what they’ve created.
Reflection prompts: integrate this episode
* What are you still in building mode around - for an experience that's already happening?
* Where do you feel like you're having to earn the ease, the rest, the joy, the reciprocity?
* What's one thing you will enjoy this week by shifting out of the doing, the thinking, the optimizing?
Daily Practice: add this to your existing journaling or gratitude practice:
* Pick your desired feeling (ease, joy, flow, whatever it is for you)
* Write: "I embrace [your word]" - and then note where you let that in today. Even one small moment counts.
* Option to name an area that you intend to bring that to life the next day
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