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College Sports [http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/College-Sports-1024x982.jpg]http://ultimateradioshow.com/my-kid-wants-to-play-college-sports/ HELP! MY KIDS WANT TO PLAY SPORTS IN COLLEGE Vintage Homeschool Moms | Episode 92 Hosted by: Felice Gerwitz > 🎧 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f3a7.png] Listen to the episode: Click here to listen [https://ultimateradioshow.com/my-kid-wants-to-play-college-sports/] > 📍 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f4cd.png] Show Notes & Resources: Available below > 🏫 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f3eb.png] Sponsored by Judson College [https://www.judsoncollege.com] – equipping students for the cause of Christ ---------------------------------------- WHERE IS GOD CALLING YOUR STUDENT? At Judson College, students are equipped to give their lives for the cause of Christ—whether that’s on the mission field, in the workplace, or in the local church. With more than 25 majors and innovative bachelor’s-to-master’s tracks, Judson prepares young adults with both biblical grounding and professional skills. Learn more at JudsonCollege.com [https://www.judsoncollege.com]. WHAT THIS EPISODE COVERS Are you wondering what it takes for your child to play college-level sports as a homeschooler? You’re not alone. In this episode, I dive into the nitty-gritty details of what it really looks like when your student wants to take their love of sports to the next level—and how you, as a parent, can help make it happen. This is part two of my two-part series on homeschoolers and sports. If you haven’t already, catch part one where we discussed early involvement and local leagues. Today, we tackle: * 🧑‍⚖️ [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f9d1-200d-2696-fe0f.png] Being Your Child’s Advocate * 🎯 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f3af.png] Clarifying Your Family’s Goals * 🎓 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f393.png] Navigating the College Recruiting Process 1. BE YOUR CHILD’S ADVOCATE Let’s be honest—no one cares about your child’s future like you do. While coaches may care deeply about their team, they likely won’t have the time or resources to guide your child into college-level athletics. That job? It falls on you. Here’s what that looks like: * Letting coaches know early if your child has college sports aspirations * Researching local travel and showcase teams * Understanding the politics that can influence team selection and playing time * Choosing teams that prioritize player development and visibility ⚠ [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/26a0.png] Pro Tip: Showcase teams often have scouts and recruiters present. Travel teams provide great competition, but not all offer exposure opportunities. Choose wisely based on your child’s goals. 2. SET CLEAR GOALS—FOR YOU AND YOUR STUDENT What’s the endgame? If your child wants to play sports in college: * Start exploring options around 9th grade * Make sure your student is academically prepared, not just athletically * Understand your state’s homeschool athletic regulations (e.g., FHSAA in Florida) * Consider the long-term goals: Is college athletics a stepping stone to coaching, or simply a college scholarship path? 🏋 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f3cb.png] Conditioning and preparation can be done at home on a budget. Many families create their own fitness routines before paying for camps or trainers. 🎓 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f393.png] Also—grades and SAT/ACT scores matter. A lot. Listen to my interview with Jean Burk from College Prep Genius to learn how test scores can lead to major scholarship money (linked in the episode notes). 3. UNDERSTANDING THE COLLEGE RECRUITING PROCESS Recruiting is a process—and it can be overwhelming without a game plan. Here’s what I recommend: ✅ [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/2705.png] DO THIS: * Help your student set up a personal sports website or profile (check out NCSA or create your own via WordPress) * Create a skills video (not just game highlights) * Collect verified stats from coaches or training facilities * Have your student email and call coaches directly * Encourage college visits that consider both sports programs and intended majors ❌ [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/274c.png] AVOID THIS: * Assuming coaches will “find” your student without intentional effort * Focusing only on the athletic fit without considering academics * Starting the process too late (senior year is pushing it) 📬 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f4ec.png] True Story: A friend’s daughter landed a college scholarship simply because she followed up with a phone call after her email went unnoticed. RESOURCES MENTIONED You’ll find all of these (and more) linked at VintageHomeschoolMoms.com – Episode 92 [https://vintagehomeschoolmoms.com]: * State Athletic Association Links (e.g., FHSAA) * Baseball & Softball Factory (Skills Evaluation Programs) * NCSA (Next College Student Athlete) * MaxPreps (for stat tracking) * College Prep Genius podcast episodes FINAL THOUGHTS If your child wants to pursue college sports, be proactive, prayerful, and persistent. Your support and research can open doors that otherwise may remain closed. And most of all—remember that this is a season. Whether or not it leads to scholarships or college play, the character built along the way is priceless. Have questions? Email me at felice@mediaangels.com—I’d love to hear from you! 💬 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f4ac.png] If this episode helped you, share it with a friend and don’t forget to leave a review on iTunes! Until next time, Felice Gerwitz 🎧 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f3a7.png] Listen to More Episodes at VintageHomeschoolMoms.com [https://vintagehomeschoolmoms.com] 🌐 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f310.png] Visit MediaAngels.com [https://mediaangels.com] for science curriculum, writing guides, and faith-based homeschool resources The post My Kid Wants to Play College Sports (Summer Replay) [https://ultimateradioshow.com/my-kid-wants-to-play-college-sports-2/] appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network [https://ultimateradioshow.com].

family vacations that don't break the bank [http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Family-Vacations-That-Dont-Break-The-Bank.jpg]http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Family-Vacations-That-Dont-Break-The-Bank.jpgLET’S TALK ABOUT FAMILY VACATIONS THAT WON’T BREAK THE BANK WITH FELICE GERWITZ PODCAST EPISODE 139 Have you considered taking a vacation that won’t break the bank? In this episode, Felice discusses ways her family has saved money on family trips, shorter than longer trips as well as setting up alerts for great last minute deals. Whether you decide on a stay at home vacation or a trip somewhere exotic, this episode will help get you there, and save money.   🎓 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f393.png] Sponsored by Judson College Looking for a Christ-centered college that values academic excellence and your family’s faith? Judson College, located in Marion, Alabama, offers a supportive environment where young women are encouraged to grow in knowledge, leadership, and purpose. With small class sizes, a rich campus community, and a legacy of Christian education, Judson is an ideal choice for homeschool graduates ready to take the next step. 👉 [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/15.1.0/72x72/1f449.png] Learn more at www.judson.edu [http://www.judson.edu]   SHOW NOTES: FAMILY VACATIONS THAT WON’T BREAK THE BANK 1. Staycation 2. Local Parks and Rec 3. Get active 4. Museums 5. Online Travel 6. Set Up Alerts Online 7. Visit Friend and Family 8. House Swaps 1. House Exchange [https://www.homeexchange.com/en/] 2. Love Homeswap [http://www.lovehomeswap.com/] 3. 10-Things You Need To Know About House Swapping [http://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/advice/2013/01/30/10-things-you-need-to-know-about-home-swapping/1877345/]   PhotoCredit – DepositPhoto.com Copyright 2016 Yaruta   The post Family Vacations That Won’t Break The Bank [https://ultimateradioshow.com/family-vacations-wont-break-bank-2/] appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network [https://ultimateradioshow.com].

Dr. Brian Ray joins us to uncover the data behind homeschooling success—from academic excellence to thriving socialization. Episode 559 is packed with insights! [https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/homeschooling-uncovered-Pinterest-Pin.png]Homeschooling uncovered is today’s topic. Have you ever wondered how we know that homeschoolers perform well academically? What about socialization? Did you know that homeschoolers often excel at socialization, frequently surpassing their peers? Where does this research come from? Today, I’m excited to introduce a special guest who will share insights about a remarkable organization dedicated to revealing the truth about homeschooling. They have the evidence to back it up. This is episode 559, and you can find today’s show notes at VintageHomeschoolMoms.com. Sponsored by NOW Programs. HOMESCHOOLING UNCOVERED ~ EPISODE 559 Dr. Ray and Betsy chose to homeschool their eight children, a decision rooted in both ideology and practicality. They never enrolled their children in institutional schools, opting instead to educate them at home from kindergarten through 12th grade. This personal decision was complemented by Dr. Ray’s growing academic interest in homeschooling, leading him to co-found NHERI and launch the Journal of Homeschool Research in the mid-1980s and early 1990s.  Dr. Ray’s dedication was not limited to his family. His research and advocacy sought to provide evidence-based insights into homeschooling, challenging traditional notions of education. He emphasizes the multifaceted nature of homeschooling, which encompasses philosophy, theology, and even politics, offering a holistic educational experience.  FIND OUT MORE ABOUT DR. BRIAN RAY: * Find more about Dr. Brian Ray and explore NHERI’s resources: [URL [http://www.nheri.org]] to donate [Donation URL [http://Donate Now https://nheri.org/donate/]] * Journal of Homeschool Research: Peer Reviewed – Academic achievement, socialization, success in adulthood; most-viewed ever in this 20-year peer-reviewed journal [URL] [https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/15582159.2017.1395638] * Homeschooling Uncovered Studies and Data: Abuse/neglect study, one of the most-read articles in this peer-reviewed journal: [URL [https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/15582159.2022.2108879]]  GROUNDBREAKING RESEARCH ON ACADEMIC ACHIEVEMENT  One of Dr. Ray’s most significant contributions to homeschooling research was his nationwide study in 1990 on academic achievement. At a time when standardized test scores were the currency of educational success, this study demonstrated the academic excellence of homeschooled children. It delved into family demographics, motivations for homeschooling, and the educational outcomes of students.  With the support of organizations like the Home School Legal Defense Association, Dr. Ray’s study garnered national attention, becoming a cornerstone for homeschooling advocacy. It not only debunked misconceptions about the efficacy of homeschooling but also set a precedent for future research.  Today, the consensus among Americans is clear: homeschooled students tend to outperform their peers in institutional schools. This shift in perception owes much to the pioneering research and advocacy led by Dr. Ray and NHERI.  ADDRESSING SOCIALIZATION CONCERNS  One of the most persistent criticisms of homeschooling has been the question of socialization. Critics argue that homeschooled children may struggle to develop social and emotional skills due to limited interaction with peers. Dr. Ray has addressed this issue through rigorous research, which consistently shows that homeschooled children excel in social and emotional development compared to their peers in institutional schools.  By collaborating with researchers worldwide, Dr. Ray has contributed to a growing body of evidence that challenges traditional notions of socialization. His studies indicate that homeschooled students are not only well-adjusted but often surpass their peers in social competence and emotional resilience.  THE ROLE OF NHERI  The National Home Education Research Institute, founded by Dr. Ray and others in 1990, has become a global leader in homeschooling research. NHERI serves as a repository for studies, data, and publications that promote the understanding and advancement of home-centered learning. Its journal, now 40 years old, continues to be a valuable resource for educators, parents, and policymakers.  NHERI’s mission extends beyond academia. It seeks to empower families with evidence-based knowledge, advocating for the right to choose homeschooling as a viable educational option. Dr. Ray encourages individuals to explore NHERI’s research through online platforms, emphasizing its accessibility and impact.  The Cultural and Philosophical Implications  Homeschooling is not merely an educational choice; it is a cultural and philosophical movement. Dr. Ray’s work highlights the broader implications of homeschooling, including its alignment with values, beliefs, and societal constructs. He explores the intersection of education with philosophy, theology, and even politics, presenting homeschooling as a holistic approach to learning.  This perspective resonates with families seeking alternatives to traditional education systems. By prioritizing personalized learning, homeschooling fosters critical thinking, creativity, and adaptability, equipping students with skills that extend beyond academics.  THE IMPACT ON PUBLIC PERCEPTION  Over the years, Dr. Ray’s research has significantly influenced public perception of homeschooling. Once considered a fringe practice, homeschooling is now recognized as a legitimate and effective educational model. The media, policymakers, and the general public increasingly acknowledge the academic and social benefits of homeschooling, thanks to the groundbreaking work of NHERI.  Dr. Ray attributes this shift to the dissemination of research findings and the advocacy efforts of organizations like NHERI. By providing data-driven insights, they have challenged stereotypes and misconceptions, paving the way for greater acceptance and support for homeschooling.  Dr. Brian Ray’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of education and research. Through his personal experience, academic pursuits, and advocacy, he has shaped the homeschooling movement, offering families an alternative path to education. His work underscores the importance of evidence-based insights, challenging traditional notions of learning and socialization.  As homeschooling continues to gain traction worldwide, the contributions of Dr. Ray and NHERI remain invaluable. Their research not only empowers families but also inspires a broader dialogue on the future of education. Whether through academic achievement, social development, or philosophical exploration, homeschooling represents a dynamic and impactful approach to learning, driven by the dedication of visionaries like Dr. Brian Ray.  Here are some episodes of Vintage Homeschool Moms you may enjoy: * Raising Homeschool Rock Stars (Episode 554): Discusses academic achievements, citing NHERI studies, and socialization, noting homeschoolers’ high activity levels. * URL: Raising Homeschool Rock Stars [https://ultimateradioshow.com/raising-homeschool-rock-stars/] * Faith-Filled Learning Wins (Episode 555): Explores faith integration and community building, aligning with homeschooling benefits. * URL: Faith-Filled Learning Wins [https://ultimateradioshow.com/faith-filled-learning-wins/] * The Best Homeschool Curriculum (Episode 536): Focuses on tailoring education and contributing to academic success. * URL: Best Homeschool Curriculum [https://ultimateradioshow.com/best-homeschool-curriculum/] ---------------------------------------- PIN ME: Dr. Brian Ray joins us to uncover the data behind homeschooling success—from academic excellence to thriving socialization. Episode 559 is packed with insights! [https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Homeschooling-Uncovered-1.png] The post Homeschooling Uncovered: Research, Funding, and Surprising Facts! [https://ultimateradioshow.com/homeschooling-uncovered/] appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network [https://ultimateradioshow.com].

Minds and Hearts Of Our Children | This was not the topic or theme I wanted to discuss today, but unfortunately, it became a topic of grave importance when I stumbled upon a post by what I would call insidious and created by an evil person who is out to undermine parents everywhere | #podcast #homeschoolpodcast #NoahsArk #TheFlood #Episode531 #ValuesandChildren #MindsandHeartsOfOurChildren #MindsandHearts #MindsHeartsChildren [https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/Minds-and-Hearts-Of-Our-Children-Pinterest-Pin-683x1024.png]https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/Minds-and-Hearts-Of-Our-Children-Pinterest-Pin.pngAre you aware that the minds and hearts of our children are being undermined? In the past, this happened quietly without our notice; however, now, it is out in the open. In this podcast, we discuss a way to counter the enemy of the family. Thanks to our sponsor, CTCMath.com [https://ctcmath.com] – check out their amazing software for K-12. Math that works! MINDS AND HEARTS OF OUR CHILDREN – EPISODE 531 This was not the topic or theme I wanted to discuss today, but unfortunately, it became a topic of grave importance when I stumbled upon a post by what I would call insidious and created by an evil person who is out to undermine parents everywhere.  I was shocked to learn that many are out in the open, unapologetic, and right under the nose of most parents. More on this in a bit. In the past, we worried about subliminal messages on records and music, whether or not a painting had things drawn in that were not age-appropriate or if a movie had a character that was not of our liking or against a religious or moral belief. One time, as an adult watching a movie, I gasped in shock, and when my husband asked why, I said that one character had her upper half exposed for a brief second! We could not believe it and warned our daughter about this popular “family-friendly” princess film at the time. At one point, it was just a little here and there, and while it was present in children’s television and movies, most parents were warned and could make informed decisions. In fact, if you were like me, you would research and preview films before you allow the children to view them. Even those sites are lacking at times. I, for one, do not like Common Sense Media; why? I looked up a movie rated “R,” and when I read the reviews on this “family-friendly” rating site, it was given three stars instead of the minus one it deserved. It contained nudity, smoking pot, and profanity. Is that all? (My go-to for ratings are Plugged In [https://www.pluggedin.com/movie-reviews/]or Christian Answers [https://christiananswers.net/spotlight/movies/2024/haroldandthepurplecrayon2024.html] with a review of Harold and The Purple Crayon. (I wanted to take the kids to this one, but we will sit it out.) Yet, while all of this is valid and of concern, what if I told you there is a known (said on air) out there, applauded by some people in our society, that is (said on air) children to disobey their parents? I heard a brief montage with the overall theme of disobeying and disrespecting your parents! I was reading the news, which, truthfully, I try to avoid, and this was shared on my X Feed. I didn’t want to watch it and normally would have scrolled over it. However, I’ve been praying about starting a podcast that talks specifically to children. I have done several “Just For Kids” episodes that speak to the heart of a child. These episodes are within the context of Vintage Homeschool Mom, and I encourage the parents to listen with their children. The content focuses on good behavior, being a member of a family, and honoring your parents. And, now, I will take it to prayer and consider a stand-alone episode. Choosing Good Behavior – Just For Kids [https://ultimateradioshow.com/choosing-good-behavior/] 50 Summer Projects – Just for Kids [https://ultimateradioshow.com/50-summer-projects-for-kids-2/] Now, back to my initial concern after listening to the person telling children to disobey. The overall advice was how to subvert your parents. Here is the nutshell version: (Details are on air.) 1. If you are asked to do something, play innocent. 2. Feel no guilt 3. Limit contact Sickening. Disturbing. Heartbreaking. MINDS AND HEARTS OF OUR CHILDREN… CORRUPTED! Sure, some kids may be confused for a season, and this person is the reason. He is encouraging children to be disobedient to the people who care and feed them, to those who love and nurture, and to those who truly have a stake in their well-being. As this man teaches children how to disobey their parents, he is conversely telling them to obey him as if this person, whose sanity is perhaps in question (sorry for being judgmental here), has all the answers. He has no moral answers, that is for darn sure! We teach our children to ask questions if they do not understand what we are asking, but not as a way to stonewall us or make us angry. In this situation, he is asking children to be combative, purposely disobedient, and hurtful. Secondly, “Feel no guilt?” So, he is teaching that if you feel bad for being a disobedient child, you should ignore this feeling. Friends, God gives us all a built-in moral compass that we, as parents, should nurture in our children. The way we do this is to praise good behavior, encourage our children to make wise choices, and give our children the ability to explore the world around them in wholesome ways. Yet, to purposely tell a child not to be morally bound to listen to their parents is offensive and hurtful; it is downright evil. And lastly, limit contact. If your child has pulled away from you, examine the reason why. There are people out there who tell our children that limiting contact with their parents is the best way to keep from getting swayed from a bad way of thinking to a good way of thinking. This makes perfect sense in the world of moral decay. If you avoid contact with what is good and holy, you become good and holy, but if you surround yourself with what is evil, then the outcome is as expected. This person used terms like “bully” and “narcissistic” to describe parents in general. He said we (parents) only talk about ourselves and care about ourselves (in response to our children’s needs.) Typical responses from parents, he claims, are as follows: 1. (A profanity which I will not repeat.) 2. How can you do this to me? 3. Why aren’t you listening to me? 4. How can you be so hurtful to me? WHAT CAN WE DO? FIGHTING FOR THE MINDS AND HEARTS OF OUR CHILDREN: You, dear parent, are so overwhelmed with homeschooling, parenting, finding enough money for groceries and other bills (and trying not to stress). Never mind the extra time to think! I get it; I’ve been there! But, this is so important. The people trying to influence our children are out there and ready. Define Yourself and Your Kids: Ask your children – who are you? (A child of God? A member of this family? A brother, a sister, or a son or daughter? Then, define yourself to your children. I am your mom (or dad), love you, and want what is best for you. If you ever need to talk to me, I am here for you. We are a family; we love God, go to church, and/or … fill in the blank with what defines you and your family. Be sure to let your children know how much you love and respect them, and encourage them whenever you can. Family First: We are a team! We spend time together because we are a family. Explain that your family comes first. The needs and wants of each person in the family are equally important. Sure, someone may be sick from time to time or need extra attention, but parents should be sure that their children are not falling through the cracks. I heard a term “glass children” and I will podcast about this on a future episode, these are children who feel that no one sees them because others in the family are in such dire need. Perhaps there is another need in the family, but you are a family together. Care for each other and protect each other–we are there for each other, no matter what! Fundamental Option: What is most important in your family? What is the most important decision(s) you make? Make sure the kids are aware. Is it a set of rules (respect) for you and for each other, faith (church on Sunday, no matter what), family meals, or no phones at the table? Whatever the rule or importance to your family, be sure it is made clear. Good Morals Do we teach our children good character traits and morals and do this by example? The best way to teach is by example, but it is also through role-playing and working through character activities as a family. I’ve created two 12-pack Character Counts Workbooks (Links here: Character Counts – [https://mediaangels.com/product/character-counts-12-more-planners/]12 Pack and Character Counts, [https://mediaangels.com/product/character-counts-12-pack-character-planners-for-kids/] Two- 12 pack), but there are many ways you can do this in real-time. If you forget to pay for an item, bring it back and take the kids. (Yes! I know.) If you run into a car backing up (tell a story), leave a note on the windshield. These things have a bigger impact on your child’s character than you realize. (Share story) Get Unplugged Be sure you have control over your child’s devices, but realize this is not enough. Even the library app isn’t safe. If you can pay for the extra protections on your internet service plan and your cell phone plan. Or put protections and a password on your kid’s phone and iPad, computers that only you know and can access. If our children are not exposed to the filth while under our care, the odds are that they will grow up to be well-adjusted adults. In our family, prayer and God were a big part of our homeschool journey. We had days when we fasted from television or sweets as a family. We practiced the 40 days leading up to Easter (Lent) as a family; the kids even joined us while in college. We have a family cell phone loop where we post prayers for each other or celebrate Holy Days and remembrances. This could only happen because I began it when we homeschooled. Look at your homeschool curriculum and be sure to add part or all of these things over the year. Celebrate things with just your family—friends are great, but family time is often limited and so precious! I have much more to say on this topic, especially on how we can use our words to encourage our children to seek their own answers that have a moral foundation. One way to do this is to use short teaching lessons as we live our lives. Next week’s podcast will focus on the four questions to ask your children about the future, dignity, relationships, and accountability. In fact, it will be an ongoing series covering each of these points because it is so necessary! I will pray for you as you navigate a society that prays upon the hearts and minds of our children! The post Fighting For The Minds and Hearts of Our Children [https://ultimateradioshow.com/minds-and-hearts-of-our-children-2/] appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network [https://ultimateradioshow.com].

Feel like you're not enough as a homeschool mom? In this heartfelt episode, Felice Gerwitz shares personal stories and timeless wisdom to remind you that you are an amazing mom—doing eternal work, one messy, grace-filled day at a time. [https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Amazing-Moms-VHM-Podcast.png]Mother’s Day comes and goes, but one thing remains constant. You are an amazing mom. How do I know? I’ve been in your shoes with lots of self-doubt. On this podcast, I share my insights on most, if not all, of you incredible moms listening. Sponsored by CTC Math. [https://www.ctcmath.com/] AMAZING MOM – EPISODE 558 There were times in my journey as a mom when I wasn’t thrilled with myself, my mission, or, if I’m being totally honest, my calling to be a homeschool mom. (Insert gasp here!) Seriously? Me, Felice Gerwitz, on episode 5,000, and I’m just now admitting this? Look, I wasn’t the girl who got all dreamy-eyed over a guy or obsessed over a boyfriend when one finally asked me out. I was laser-focused on graduating from high school, then college, and landing a solid job. My big dreams? They shifted from psychologist to educator, and I had my sights set on being a school principal, changing the world one kid at a time. But God slightly nudged me in a different direction. I got that teaching degree, but everything else? It faded into the background once I got married and had my first kid. And you know what? I don’t regret it one bit! Think back to your own goals. Was your dream to get married, have a bunch of kids, and homeschool? If so, you’re already miles ahead of where I was back then. I was way too selfish to even think about a house full of kids, and homeschooling? Not even on my radar. Yet, there I was, with two little ones, standing at a homeschool conference. I jumped in with both feet and barely any prep. I struggled a lot. Why was I homeschooling? Why was I such an impatient mom? Why was I raising my voice more often than not? But here’s the thing: I was already doing more as a homeschool mom than I gave myself credit for. I loved doing arts and crafts with my kids, taking long walks, picking up bits of nature, and coming home to make nature pictures. Those doubts creeping in? Those aren’t from the Lord. We need to remember we’re doing the most important job there is—raising our kids. We all struggle, some more than others. Our lives aren’t perfect, and sometimes they’re not even close to what we pictured for ourselves. But we show up, every single day. I’m in a different season now than I was even five years ago. My kids are grown, young adults now. Some went to college, some didn’t, and no matter what, I was there for them. Whether they were under my roof or hundreds of miles away, I was still Mom. When I say I know you’re an amazing mom, let me break it down. We moms show up. We’ve got what I call “Caregiver’s Syndrome,” where we put everyone else first—kids, spouse, you name it—and neglect ourselves, sometimes to the point of running ourselves ragged. We don’t always eat right, and hot food? Ha, what’s that? We’re interrupted in our most private moments, and a shower or bath? That’s a late-night luxury when the kids are finally in bed. Don’t even get me started on sleep deprivation. And yet, we keep showing up. Being a mom is a blessing, even when it doesn’t feel like it. You’ve been ordained by Almighty God, given the privilege of nurturing your kids into adulthood. It’s not always fun, and it can be downright heartbreaking. But you’re a blessing to your family, and that’s no small thing. AMAZING MOM ALERT: * Praying for your kids. Daily. You’re lifting them up to the Lord, trusting Him with their hearts and futures. * Showing up, no excuses. Even when you’re exhausted, you’re there. * Caring deeply. Not just surface-level stuff, but that heart-deep love that keeps you going. * Putting family first. Your spouse, your kids—they come before your own needs. * Listening. Really hearing your kids, taking the time to know what’s on their hearts. Amazing moms mess up—a lot. But we get back up and try again. It’s that sense of purpose, that determination, that sets us apart. And that, my friends, is what we strive for (besides just surviving the day). Everyone tells you to enjoy these years with your babies at home because they fly by, and maybe you try to but some days it’s extremely hard. But the key is focusing on the memories. Let me add a few more things I’ve learned along the way, because being an amazing mom isn’t just about showing up—it’s about leaning into God’s plan for you. DON’T FORGET! First, God’s grace is your lifeline. You’re going to mess up. You’ll lose your patience, forget something important, or feel like you’re not cut out for this. But God’s grace covers every single one of those moments. His power shines through your weaknesses (2 Corinthians 12:9). So let go of the guilt and trust that He’s equipped you for this calling, even when you feel like you’re a failure. Second, you don’t have to do this alone. Homeschooling can feel like you’re on an island, but God gave us community for a reason. Lean on your church, your homeschool co-op, or even an online mom’s group. We have a great Facebook group for moms that is so underutilized. Each one of the show hosts on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network is a member and ready to answer any of your questions. With a group of friends you can share your struggles, pray for each other, and lift each other up (Galatians 6:2). You’re not meant to carry this load alone. Third, your faith is a living example. It’s not just about praying for your kids—it’s about showing them what trusting God looks like. Read Scripture together, even if it’s just a verse. Forgive them when they mess up, just like God forgives you. Let them see you lean on Jesus when life gets hard. That’s how you shape their faith, day by day. Fourth, taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s stewardship. God gave you this body and mind, and you’ve got to tend to it. I’m not talking about spa days. Just carve out a few minutes to pray, read, or even sip your coffee while it’s still warm. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and God wants you to keep a portion of the blessings He’s given to you. Fifth, celebrate the small stuff. We’re so hard on ourselves, always thinking we’re not doing enough. But every time you get through a tough day, teach your kid something new, or see them show kindness, you can be proud of yourself and them. It’s not vanity, it’s truth. Those are signs of God’s faithfulness in your work. Give yourself a high-five for the little victories. And finally, keep the eternal perspective. The dishes, the laundry, the spilled milk—it’s all part of something bigger. You’re not just raising kids; you’re shaping souls for eternity (Proverbs 22:6). Every sacrifice, every prayer, every moment you choose to show up? That’s kingdom work. God sees it, and it matters forever. MEMORIES MATTER: Let me share a story that’s stuck with me. My Italian uncle, Uncle Tony, used to show up to family dinners with a pocket full of one-dollar bills. My kids would swarm him because they knew the deal: he’d ask their age and hand over that many dollars. No amount of us begging him to stop made a difference! Uncle Tony came from a family of seventeen kids. I saw a black-and-white photo of his family once, and his mom? Stunningly beautiful, with this serene look, surrounded by her kids. Her husband died young, and she raised them all. Uncle Tony was only twelve when he took the family cow to their village, selling fresh milk with a tin cup. He became the original “milk man,” worked hard, and was super successful. But he always said, “You’re making memories with your kids. There’s no job more important.” He and my aunt couldn’t have kids, but they adopted two of his brother’s kids after his wife passed. That lesson about memories? It hit me hard. Every day, we’re making memories. When we’re washing dishes, folding laundry, or mopping up messes—but especially when we’re drying tears or listening to our kids ramble about their day. Field trips, park days, or picnics (even in the living room when it’s pouring)? Those are awesome. But nothing beats just being Mom. For me, the best moments are when my kids ask for prayers because they know I’ll pray. I love that they can count on me—it’s just part of being Mom. It’s thankless sometimes, sure, but so rewarding. Being a mom wasn’t on my top ten list of dreams growing up. I had my career all mapped out, but God knew better. He knew I needed this, not some fancy job. And I thank Him for it every day. So, amazing moms, keep showing up. Lean on God’s grace, find your people, live your faith out loud, take care of yourself, celebrate the little wins, and never forget—you’re doing eternal work. You’ve got this, because God’s got you.   The post Amazing Mom [https://ultimateradioshow.com/amazing-mom/] appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network [https://ultimateradioshow.com].