The Clinicians Table with Tabitha Azor & Gerina Davis

The Interplay Between Shame and Pride

Tabitha and Gerina discuss the complex interplay between shame, pride, and the process of healing. Key themes include: * Understanding Shame and Pride: Shame is described as a feeling that arises when actions do not align with one's values, often leading individuals to feel they are not “good enough.” Pride is presented as a response rooted in needing “more” or performing to cover up that sense of inadequacy. * The Origins of Shame: Using the story of Adam and Eve, we explore how shame creates barriers to emotional transparency and vulnerability, often leading people to hide behind their mistakes. We also touch on how shame is learned through family systems, cultural expectations, and certain spiritual environments. * Healing and Restoration: Healing is framed as a return to vulnerability, where one can be “naked and unashamed.” We differentiate between shame and conviction—where shame isolates, conviction leads to restoration. The process of healing is described as a combination of grace and truth. * Clinical Perspectives: We discuss the impact of over-diagnosing and misusing labels like “narcissism,” and how that can hinder healing. We also share approaches such as naming emotions, using circular questions, and identifying the underlying “benefits” of certain behaviors. * Practical Self-Reflection: Viewers are encouraged to reflect on inherited scripts, protective behaviors, and what it looks like to allow God to cover them rather than relying on self-protection.

Healing Through Faith Alone, Part Two

In Part Two of this conversation, The Clinician’s Table shifts from reflection to application—exploring what real healing looks like in practice. Building on the tension between faith as healing and faith as performance, the hosts take a closer look at why programs like Alcoholics Anonymous have been so effective, and what both faith communities and clinical spaces can learn from their model. What makes AA work isn’t just structure—it’s honesty, accountability, and the permission to be in process. The hosts unpack how grace, community, and consistent self-confrontation create an environment where true transformation can happen, without the pressure to appear “fixed.” This episode challenges the idea that healing should be immediate or polished, instead reframing it as something that requires repetition, support, and safe spaces to be fully seen. In this episode, we discuss: • Why Alcoholics Anonymous has been effective across generations • The role of accountability in sustainable healing • Grace vs. performance in recovery spaces • The power of shared experience and community support • Why healing requires process—not perfection • What faith communities can learn from structured recovery models • Creating environments where honesty is safer than image This conversation invites listeners to rethink what healing spaces should look like—where truth is welcomed, growth is supported, and no one has to pretend to be further along than they really are.

Can Healing Come by Faith Alone?

In this episode of The Clinician’s Table, two Christian marriage and family therapists explore the tension between faith as healing and faith as performance. What happens when belief becomes pressure? And how do we know when our faith is actually helping us heal—or keeping us stuck? Through both clinical insight and personal stories, the hosts unpack how faith can be a powerful foundation for emotional and psychological healing, while also addressing the ways performance, spiritual bypassing, and denial can harm mental health. They discuss the impact of shame, fragmentation, and compartmentalizing, and why authentic faith requires emotional honesty, grief, and growth. 🎧 Next episode: A discussion on why programs like Alcoholics Anonymous work and what healing spaces can learn from their model of grace, accountability, and process. Disclaimer: We do not own the rights to the music used at the end of this episode. “Pressure” by Jonathan McReynolds was included at the request of the hosts for illustrative and discussion purposes only. All rights belong to the original artist and copyright holders.

Your Lack of Self Love is Stealing your Freedom

What would happen if you stopped compartmentalizing and showed up as your full self? In this episode of The Clinician’s Table, Gerina and Tabitha unpack the tension between freedom and control, faith and mental health, and the systems that struggle to hold authentic humanity. This conversation dives into leadership burnout, emotional safety, and why healing often begins with being seen.

When Shame Feels Safer Than Freedom: How to Break the Pattern

This conversation explores how shame and compartmentalizing often develop as survival strategies—ways we protect ourselves when being fully seen feels unsafe. While these patterns can create a sense of control and safety, they can also limit freedom, authenticity, and emotional growth. Through a clinical and reflective lens, the hosts discuss why letting go of these defenses can feel threatening, how shame keeps parts of the self hidden, and what it means to find the permission to be free. Moving from survival into integration, healing, and wholeness.